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if you planned ur babies...?

hey, i just wanted to ask all thoses Mama's who planned their pregnancies, if you fell pregnant straightaway or if it took a while? Also, how long does it take to fall pregnant after going off the pill?

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i know my doctor wants three months off the pill before trying.. but i know i got pregnant on the pill so... i know just missing one or two doses can increase your chances of getting pregnant...

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my son wasnt planned, but i never say he was a mistake....he was a wonderful surprise :D i got pregnant 3 months after i stopped taking the pill....and i knew i was pregnant like right away!

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i was off the pill for a week or two when i got pregnant after being on it for a year and a few months. my prengancy wasn't planned. i wasn't getting periods for a few months and so after my period was missed again i decided to see if it would come on its own, with out the pill. it didnt come obviously. i might have gotten pregnant while on the pill, actually.. im not totally sure as i was on the pill and waiting for a period and that was in dec/jan and my due date is october 8th. so my most likely situation is that i was off it for a week or 2 at most before becoming pregnant.

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took about two weeks

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It took me a year and one miscarriage before I had Mason.

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4 months. then a miscarriage.

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3 months

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first time

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Tevian wasn't planned but he wasn't prevented either.. BD and I were having unprotected sex for 17 months before I got pregnant.. Some people get pregnant right away, others it can take some time.. every woman's body is different..

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I was the same as pp. We weren't planning but we weren't doing everything we could to prevent it. I was on the pill until May. Then i stopped taking it becuase me and Jeremy weren't together at the time, and then i just never got back on it after we did get back together. I got pregnant it Aug. so it took about 3 months.

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We were planning on getting pregnant in a few months, so I went off the pill, since everything I read said it took 3 months. Well, I never got a period, so I got pregnant right away after stopping!

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it took us over a year, but i have some problems that were not helping at all. (ie. endometriosis, hypothyroid..) I finally got pregnant when I saw a new doctor and they changed the medicine I was taking for hypothyroid. I was pregnant a month later.

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I had unprotected sex for about 7 months before I got pregnant. Funny thing, right when I decided to go back on the pill, I got pregnant.

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well im quit diff...i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend scince we got together. im allergic to latex so we did the "pullout method" witch worked for years untijust this recently in jan when i got preg. i wasnt exactly planning it but i sortve was uncounciously...i say this because i knew when my prime days for fertility were and i kindve wanted a child then because my sis just had her baby and it was so cute and stuff...so now im here and due in oct and im freaked out! lol

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i got pg for the first time without having sex. damnit i hate it when those absitnance only people are right! we were fooling around and sort of nervousely debating weathr or not to "do it". I don't think he'd ever been so close to anythign so nice in his entire life cause after just a few seconds of hovering there, hseitating, everyting was very um... sticky. that preg, at 16 ended in a missarrage
i sort of unconciously planned my son. ex and i were having unprotected sex every couple weeks. i think i must have gotten pregnant after just a couple visits.
average for people tying to concieve is about 1 year. that may be because many women trying to have children are in their late 20's and thirties, when fertility begins to decline. depending on your age you may find yourself becoming pregnant much more quickly

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On my behave Justice wasn't planned but I did nothing to prevent getting pregnant, for BD she was planned, We had sex twice before we conceived.

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well...i didn't plan my pregnancy, and i didn't take the pill, but i can tell you that i was on the patch for 2 years when i decided to get off of it because one of my friends got a really bad blood clot from it and as soon as i took it off and had sex...i got pregnant. like seriously...just that quick! everybody's body is different tho! GOOD LUCK!

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I planned this pregnancy, and I think it took around 3 months after stopping the pill, which doesnt sound long, but while I was trying it felt like forever.

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I didnt plan this pregnancy I was on the pill and missed two doses and got pregnant. Like everyone else is saying everyones body is diffrent so it could happen at anytime

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i planned mine... kind of, but everyone thinks it was an accident. my fiance and i knew we wanted to be together and have kids someday, and the more we talked about kids the better it sounded. we had unprotected sex once and that's all it took. we both know that it was pretty reckless since we were just moving in with eachother, i was starting a new college, he was the only one working, and well just all the typical financial stuff really.
in the beginning i was really scared and almost aborted, but i knew that this wasn't an accident, we had done it to have it. my fiance has been supportive of all my choices and i'm just so thankful to have him around. we both kind of feel that our (yes, our, he and i say that "we" are pregnant, not just me :) ) pregnancy has given our lives more direction now that we're starting a family and has given us goals towards further education and careers now..

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SkyKid45 wrote:
I had unprotected sex for about 7 months before I got pregnant. Funny thing, right when I decided to go back on the pill, I got pregnant.

That sorta happened to a few friends of mine...one was having unprotected for like.. a YEAR, then just as she started thinking "maybe it's time to be a little more cautious" she was pregnant! I don't think I've ever seen her happier, though ^^

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i was off the pill for 3 months and got pregnant during the 3rd month of being off it. and i had my new pack of pills to try. yeahh..lol

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man i was on the pill an still got pregnant!!! we were in BIG shock.. plus he would pull out.. but a while ago he would finish inside me and i never got prego. each one is different

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With my two youngest ones I was pregnant within one cycle.

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i don't have any but i got pregnant straight away first time i had sex wasn't planned and i lost the baby sadly...........

Tevian is a very nice name :)

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Our daughter wasn't planned or prevented.... We knew I would get pregnant... It took about a week. But I haven't been on any form of hormonal BC for years.