My mom is sooo awful about my bd's mom. I left my daughter over there today and my mom says to my sister on the phone, "Yeah she abandoned Olivia today." And then to me,"Those people are total strangers to her and you just left her there without you." COME ON! They are her grandparents just as much as my mom is. And her dad was there the whole time and she knows him, he visits at least twice a week. Why is she so jealous and possesive? She makes really inappropriate comments about them all the time in front of my daughter, who is definitely IMO gonna pick up on those negative vibes. I want her to be close with all of her family, they want it and so many people don't have that great luxury. She's so lucky. How can I get my mom off my case?