Well today andrew (my bf) and I went to Kay jewelers to look at the engagement rings, we'd been looking for awhile and we finally decided to get one, its a 1/3 of a carat, which is just big enough for me, but not too big, its just a cute little diamond solitaire. But afterwards, we were telling everyone that we had picked it out and all they could say was that I shouldnt be involved in picking it out! Its going to be MY ring, that I'll be wearing for a long period of time, and we both think that i should be involved in choosing it. What I dont understand is why people think this is such a bad move, I still dont know when or how he will propose, id rather know its coming then have it thrown on me out of no where. I just dont get it.