Ok im new here and im 16yrs old nd im 18weeks prego. My ex boyfriend and i just recently broke up nd i love him...wen we first found out that i was prego we were exited until his mom told him out abortions i didnt want to do it but i loved him nd we could always try later..i had to think bout it but his mom found out i wanted to keep it (his mom was the one with the idea of an abortion) so she said that if i kept it she didnt want anthing to do with me..nd that hurt!! well i decided to have an abortion but wen i got to the abortion clinic i was already 14wks meanin it was already a baby nd it would have been murder in my eyes...well wen i told him that i had to keep it he started actin weird nd i started to notice that he didnt want to be with me anymore...just recently i broke up wit him cuz he had changed nd he was bein really mean nd i couldnt handle it anymore...now he doesnt answer my text messages or my phone calls..i love him nd i truly miss him...i need advice!!! i also wanted to kno...does cryin alot affect a baby while ur still prego.???