I just need to vent. I was watching what seemed to be a clever little cartoon on myspace and through the course of it I realized something.
I am SO SICK of guys who go on about how awful women are and how all they want is money, and those are the SAME guys who will insult women based on their looks or weight.
It just PISSES me OFF that men think it's okay to be completely superficial while at the same time damning and demeaning women who choose to act the same way just based on something other than looks. WE'RE all after money and that's so HORRIBLE, but you are all after looks and that's just FINE.
Yeah, that's a common male theory... And I have met lots if men with that theory.... and there famillies too.
With Neil and I, he knew I wasn't into him for money.... and I knew he was into me for more then my looks.... But try to tell that to everyone else! And they were the ones with the opinions, let me tell you!
Everyone always assumes that I'm a gold digger but I'm sooooo not. Just because I'm with a guy with money, doesn't mean I'm USING him for said money.
Yeah, some girls do go after the cash - but what do they usually have to give the guy in return? But that's okay, right? Fair trade, right? Bullshit. But hell, we'll always be the bad guys.
Honestly, I wont even let my boyfriend buy me anything.. idk why it doesen't feel right... I usually end up buying him things after him refusing for 30 mins.. LOL idk sometimes i know he dosen't have extra money & i know not to even ask so i usually offer to buy him lunch or a drink or whatever i know he needs.. he wont ask me though.. idk sometimes i wish i wasent so stubborn.. =]