Well almost 12 hours ago... my fiancee and bd. dumped me! yah... he said he heard i was cheating.. and the distance was too much.. That we can be friends .... wait ... I'll get you a message he wrote to me..
"""sorry to be a dick im just having 2nd thoughts about us im haveing people tell me that your cheating again so yeah after ten or so times it gets old and excusses run out beangs that these people have no reason to lie but you do ! sorry ""
""sorry i havent cheated on you babe but if i didnt call it off i might have there are alot of people i like and i didnt want to ruin our relashenship over some thing stupid it would be a mistake also i feel that you have cheated on me before ive had too many people tell me that i cant trust you mabey one day i can so yeah i still love you and always well sorry tho you must think im an ass ""
there is a lot more.. but it is hard to do this while crying..
I never cheated. Never will. I love him.
I did nothing of the sort. and it is bs.
So depressed .. I think i might relapse. I used to cut myself and i feel It would help so much right now.
dont know what to do.. confused. depressed. worried. HELP
lol.. the titled is suppose to say dumped..
gawd i hate myself
First off, try and take a deep breath.
You WILL be ok, with or without him. I know it no fun to be dumped, especially over and untrue reason, but I'd give it a few days, cause he may realize he was being silly, and come to his senses.
But, if he does or doesn't, its easier to talk about things and work things out if you are calm, and confident that you don't need him to be ok. If he sees that you will be ok without him, and don't need him to be happy, a lot of times that makes guys think twice.
Just try to keep reassuring your self that you have a beautiful daughter, that YOU are beautiful, and you DO NOT need this guy to make you happy.
I do think that if you haven't cheated and that all the stuff he is hearing is made up, that you should talk to him, but again, calmly. Not so much in an atempt to get him back. But just say, or maybe write to him, saying that you did not do those things, and that if he doesn't want a relationship thats fine, but he'd be breaking up with you under false accusations..
I dunno, I'm bad at this sort of stuff, but you can get through this no matter what the outcome, that I know.
He's using that as an excuse. It's not your fault the relationship is over.
you are a strong woman and you will always be fine, with or without this guy. i agree that it sounds like an excuse. you know what the truth is, and you will always have the superior moral ground. he sounds really immature and like a jerk. even though it is super hard to deal with now, do you think this may be for the best (in the long run)?