I had a prenatal appt today and it went horribly.
My Dr informed me she will be on vacation and won't be delivering my baby, however either another Dr whom i kind of like or the one I cannot stand and it horrible to me every time I see her will!
Yay!
Now I want to have this baby next week so she can deliver her.
I also forgot my disability paperwork.
I am SO done with this pregnancy.
Awww. . . poor mama! Hopefully things will turn around soon and you will have your wonderful baby to hold!
I'm sorry she's leaving. Don't get too bummed out if it is the one you don't like. Remember that you are birthing the baby no matter who happens to be catching it.
that really sucks i am in the same predicament there is one doctor i really like who i have seen throughout the pregnancy and there is another who i can not stand. i hope you get the doctor you like! can you go tomorrow with the maternity leave papers?
That sucks to be worrying about whether someone you dislike will attend your birth. I hope you get the one you want!
I got a doctor I didn't realllly like to deliver T, the one I adored who did all my prenatal wasn't on duty when I went into labor. I didn't HATE her, but I thought she was too brisk and not that great. It turned out to be better actually because I had absolutely no qualms about putting my foot down about things, cause hey, I didn't like her (nicely, of course, but it gave me a backbone) ;D If it were the one I liked I think I would have been more easily swayed into things I didn't really want, just because I wouldn't know how to stand up to someone I really did like. But with this one she'd start pressuring me and I could snap at her and it was all fine. It gave me a chance to focus on myself and what I wanted and screw what anyone else said. AND she turned out not to be that bad during the delivery anyways, in the office she was always really brisk but maybe it's because she was overloaded or didn't like routine prenatal work, but when it came time to actually delivery she was pretty sensitive to what I wanted and how I was doing, and sweet with the baby when it came out.
Thanks for that, Naivete :)
That made me feel a lot better!
i agree it ok s long as the baby is healthy