I'm 16, married, pregnant, and PROUD! Yet it really hurts that people just don't understant this! In just the passed couple of days so many people have said things that have really hurt...just writing them all down to vent. Sorry if this offends anyone.
The following conversation took place on AIM. I did change the screen names to our real names. I found out who Angelia was after asking around. She uses anti-women language up the yingyang...and it really hurt.
Angelia: who the fuck is this
Angelia: omg your fuckin dumb
Angelia: are you being a bitch to krystin
Angelia: were you
Kristy: We were in a fight...
Angelia: why dont you leave her the fuck alone what the hell did she do to you
Angelia: ur dumb as fuck
Kristy: Um excuse me. I have left her alone. That was awhile ago. I never brought it back up.
Kristy: It's little shits like you that keep bring it up
Angelia: what was your problem with her anyways
Kristy: Her attitude is ugly.
Angelia: your ugly
Kristy: Yup, damn straight.
Kristy: I'm an ugly.
Kristy: Everyone knows that.
Angelia: no your an ugly mother fucker
Angelia: your husband licks dick
Kristy: only sometimes *he doesn't really...don't worry*
Angelia: yeah when your not
Kristy: You know...you really aren't offending me. Just making me laugh
Angelia: you know your making me laugh to
Angelia: because your dumb as fuck *Didn't she already say this?*
Angelia: and you act like your old
Kristy: Oh wow! Such an accomplishment
Kristy: I am old!
Angelia: when your probably only 11
Kristy: I'm 16
Angelia: and you have a kid
Angelia: and a husband
Angelia: your a fucking slut god damn keep your legs closed
Kristy: I'm 16, married, and due in November with a baby boy.
Kristy: Oh shit.
Kristy: That's some harsh words
Angelia: o your cool
Angelia: pregnat slut *Alright alright, she's already called me a slut. I know she thinks I am.*
Angelia: you probably dont even have a dad for you ugly ass monkey lookin kid
Kristy: What the hell?
Kristy: I'm MARRIED
Angelia: im sure you are
Angelia: dogs cant support kids hun *Who said anything about a dog? I'm confused...*
Kristy: Okay, you're trying to call me stupid and all this shit...but hun, you don't know crap.
Angelia: oh i know i dont have no fuckin kid when im 16
Kristy: What's wrong with having a kid at 16?
Kristy: Mary had Jesus when she was 12.
Angelia: um its a little young
Angelia: omg lets be like the bible
Kristy: Just trying to prove a point
Kristy: wats your point?
Angelia: your not the only slut?
Angelia: i already knew that hah your mom is too
Kristy: Telling "mom" jokes? Oh...real mature.
Angelia: oh having a fuckin baby real mature
Angelia: sleeping around with ppl you dont know
Angelia: real mature
Angelia: you std mother fucker
Kristy: I wasn't sleeping around with people I didn't know.
Angelia: im sure
Kristy: I slept with my boyfriend, who is now my husband.
Kristy: ONE guy.
Angelia: at 16
Angelia: thats illegal
Kristy: No it's not.
Kristy: age of consent is 16.
Kristy: and he's not over the age of 18.
Angelia: how olds your man
Angelia: theres somthing wrong with his fuckin ass
Kristy: Which would be...?
Angelia: hes married to u
Kristy: Damn, that's a good one!
Kristy: You're right...something MUST be wrong.
Angelia: ur fat and i dont think its the baby
Kristy: You're right.
Kristy: Sue me.
Kristy: I'm an overweight bitch who sleeps around with random people and is a slut like the VIRGIN Mary. Right?
Angelia: and your pregnat
Kristy: and ugly
Kristy: and dumb
Angelia: so more like a dumb ugly pregnat fat bitch who sleeps around with random guys
Angelia: that sums it up putting it nice
Kristy: No, I am not pregnat...I'm pregnant***
Kristy: Learn to spell smart one.
Angelia: sorry i dont spell words i dont care about
Angelia: because i dont know about being pregnant
Kristy: Which is why you have no room to talk.
Angelia: like you little miss slut sltu
Angelia: which is why i can give you shit
Angelia: becuase your not suppose to know about it
Kristy: Because I'm a slut?
Angelia: until your old enough to have a baby
lKristy: When I don't sleep with more than one guy?
Kristy: And who is to say how old is old enough to have a kid?
Angelia: thats what you want your husband to think
Angelia: your still a kid dumb shit
Kristy: No, I'm a wife and going to be a mother.
Kristy: I'm not still a child.
Angelia: your not due till november that kid is gonne be huge
Angelia: yes you are your not an adult until your 18 no matter what the fuck you fucked up on
Kristy: That's not true.
Angelia: your hole life is already shit
Kristy: Legally the courts see me as an adult.
Angelia: oh right
Angelia: and what does your mom see you as
Angelia: a fuckin slut who fucked everything up
Angelia: and didnt graduate high school
Kristy: I didn't "fuck" everything up
Angelia: oh real cool
Angelia: and I AM graduating from high school, as well as going to college.
Angelia: im sure you are
Angelia: with a kid
Angelia: he can help you
Kristy: That's right.
Kristy: With a child.
Kristy: I don't need help!
Angelia: yeah you do
Kristy: In what ways?
Angelia: you need serious help
Angelia: you whore
Kristy: Besides kicking your ass?
Angelia: oh how are you gonna do that
Angelia: hunt me down
Kristy: Yeah, you heard me. I can't do it because I'm pregnant, but I have plenty of friends who would just love to.
Kristy: Let me see, you're probably only going to be a 10th grader
Kristy: and your screen name says baker
Angelia: oh lets see im not in 10th grade
Angelia: and baker gives you a whole lot of info
Kristy: Then why the number 89?
Angelia: um maybe because thats the year i was born slut
Kristy: which is TWO years AFTER me
Kristy: so either you'll be a 9th grader or a 10th grader
Angelia: yeah look for me in 10th grade
Angelia: ill love for your friends to come onto our campus and beat me up
Kristy: You aren't worth the time.
Angelia: more like you'll be bust breast feeding
Kristy: Do you mean busy breast feeding?
Kristy: Yeah, I will be.
Kristy: Got a problem with that?
Angelia: no you have a little kid suck your tit and get plessure from it
Kristy: Okay, you need to get some help.
Kristy: You and you're perverted mind is a little too much.
Angelia: yeah you like it
Kristy: Only someone with major issues would even think to say something like that.
Angelia: oh yeah but even worse to do it
Angelia: like you!
Kristy: So breast feeding is something women shouldn't do?
Angelia: women.. not little girls
Kristy: And really, I have nothing to say to you anymore.
Angelia: oo nothing left
Kristy: Oh, I have plenty more I can say, but I'm not going to.
Angelia: say it then
Angelia: u want to tell me how you fucked your life up some more
Angelia: are you on crack to
Kristy: My life isn't fucked up.
Kristy: It's not like the normal teenage life.
Kristy: But it isn't fucked up.
Angelia: yeha it is
Angelia: married tied down at 16
Kristy: Yes, I'm married but I don't see it as being tied down.
Angelia: is that the first guy you ever been with
Kristy: First and last.
Angelia: thats messed up. u should have done it w/ 2 more guys so u kow whats good or no
Kristy: Do I care? Do I want to have slept around with a bunch of guys? No.
Kristy: Did I get married just because I got pregnant? No.
Kristy: We were planning on getting married anyways.
Angelia: and then you got knocked up
Angelia: and he had to marry you
Kristy: Well, it was nice talking with you.
Kristy: But really, I have to go.
My 13 year old brother-in-law also really says things that digs into my skin. He DOES have a mental disability that makes him act like an 10 year old. I understand that. But he also knows right from wrong. He just prefers the wrong over the right.
------------passed couple of days-------------
Gunnar: I'm going to throw this ball at your stomach. I don't care if it hurts your baby.
Me: *In White Rock, BC sitting down on a few rocks leading down to the bay.*
Gunnar: You're going to fall and kill yourself and I'll be happy.
Gunnar talking to a cousin: Kristy tryings to act so perfect but she's a stupid whore. She doesn't even pay for things for herself. She makes my mom do all of it!
There are quite a few more, but I love him because he's my brother-in-law...it just hurts that he hates me so much.
Upon entering the Canadian border, you're required to show your birth certificate and ID....here's what happened.
Lady: Um okay...how is Kristy related to this car?
FIL: My step-son's wife.
Lady: ...right. How old is she?
Lady: *glaring at me* 16 and married?
I wanted to roll down my window and say "Yeah, and I'm pregnant too. Got a problem with that? I understand that they have to ask those questions...but with that attitude and voice? God...it made me feel like trash.