I'm 16, married, pregnant, and PROUD! Yet it really hurts that people just don't understant this! In just the passed couple of days so many people have said things that have really hurt...just writing them all down to vent. Sorry if this offends anyone.
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The following conversation took place on AIM. I did change the screen names to our real names. I found out who Angelia was after asking around. She uses anti-women language up the yingyang...and it really hurt.
Angelia: who the fuck is this
Kristy: me
Angelia: omg your fuckin dumb
Angelia: are you being a bitch to krystin
Kristy: no
Angelia: were you
Kristy: We were in a fight...
Angelia: why dont you leave her the fuck alone what the hell did she do to you
Angelia: ur dumb as fuck
Kristy: Um excuse me. I have left her alone. That was awhile ago. I never brought it back up.
Kristy: It's little shits like you that keep bring it up
Kristy: mmkay?
Angelia: what was your problem with her anyways
Kristy: Her attitude is ugly.
Angelia: your ugly
Kristy: Yup, damn straight.
Kristy: I'm an ugly.
Kristy: Everyone knows that.
Angelia: no your an ugly mother fucker
Angelia: your husband licks dick
Kristy: only sometimes *he doesn't really...don't worry*
Angelia: yeah when your not
Kristy: You know...you really aren't offending me. Just making me laugh
Angelia: you know your making me laugh to
Angelia: because your dumb as fuck *Didn't she already say this?*
Angelia: and you act like your old
Kristy: Oh wow! Such an accomplishment
Kristy: I am old!
Angelia: when your probably only 11
Kristy: I'm 16
Angelia: and you have a kid
Angelia: and a husband
Angelia: your a fucking slut god damn keep your legs closed
Kristy: I'm 16, married, and due in November with a baby boy.
Kristy: Oh shit.
Kristy: That's some harsh words
Angelia: o your cool
Angelia: pregnat slut *Alright alright, she's already called me a slut. I know she thinks I am.*
Angelia: you probably dont even have a dad for you ugly ass monkey lookin kid
Kristy: What the hell?
Kristy: I'm MARRIED
Angelia: im sure you are
Angelia: dogs cant support kids hun *Who said anything about a dog? I'm confused...*
Kristy: Okay, you're trying to call me stupid and all this shit...but hun, you don't know crap.
Angelia: oh i know i dont have no fuckin kid when im 16
Kristy: What's wrong with having a kid at 16?
Kristy: Mary had Jesus when she was 12.
Angelia: um its a little young
Angelia: omg lets be like the bible
Kristy: Just trying to prove a point
Kristy: wats your point?
Angelia: your not the only slut?
Angelia: i already knew that hah your mom is too
Kristy: Telling "mom" jokes? Oh...real mature.
Angelia: oh having a fuckin baby real mature
Angelia: sleeping around with ppl you dont know
Angelia: real mature
Angelia: you std mother fucker
Kristy: I wasn't sleeping around with people I didn't know.
Angelia: im sure
Kristy: I slept with my boyfriend, who is now my husband.
Kristy: ONE guy.
Angelia: at 16
Angelia: thats illegal
Angelia: bitch
Kristy: No it's not.
Kristy: age of consent is 16.
Kristy: and he's not over the age of 18.
Angelia: how olds your man
Kristy: 17
Angelia: 45
Angelia: theres somthing wrong with his fuckin ass
Kristy: Which would be...?
Angelia: hes married to u
Kristy: Damn, that's a good one!
Kristy: You're right...something MUST be wrong.
Angelia: ur fat and i dont think its the baby
Kristy: You're right.
Kristy: Sue me.
Kristy: I'm an overweight bitch who sleeps around with random people and is a slut like the VIRGIN Mary. Right?
Angelia: and your pregnat
Kristy: and ugly
Kristy: and dumb
Angelia: so more like a dumb ugly pregnat fat bitch who sleeps around with random guys
Angelia: that sums it up putting it nice
Kristy: No, I am not pregnat...I'm pregnant***
Kristy: Learn to spell smart one.
Angelia: sorry i dont spell words i dont care about
Angelia: because i dont know about being pregnant
Kristy: Which is why you have no room to talk.
Angelia: like you little miss slut sltu
Angelia: which is why i can give you shit
Angelia: becuase your not suppose to know about it
Kristy: Because I'm a slut?
Angelia: until your old enough to have a baby
lKristy: When I don't sleep with more than one guy?
Angelia: oo
Kristy: And who is to say how old is old enough to have a kid?
Angelia: thats what you want your husband to think
Angelia: your still a kid dumb shit
Kristy: No, I'm a wife and going to be a mother.
Kristy: I'm not still a child.
Angelia: your not due till november that kid is gonne be huge
Angelia: yes you are your not an adult until your 18 no matter what the fuck you fucked up on
Kristy: That's not true.
Angelia: your hole life is already shit
Kristy: Legally the courts see me as an adult.
Angelia: oh right
Angelia: and what does your mom see you as
Angelia: a fuckin slut who fucked everything up
Angelia: and didnt graduate high school
Kristy: I didn't "fuck" everything up
Angelia: oh real cool
Angelia: and I AM graduating from high school, as well as going to college.
Angelia: im sure you are
Angelia: with a kid
Angelia: he can help you
Kristy: That's right.
Kristy: With a child.
Kristy: I don't need help!
Angelia: yeah you do
Kristy: In what ways?
Angelia: you need serious help
Angelia: you whore
Kristy: Besides kicking your ass?
Angelia: oh how are you gonna do that
Angelia: hunt me down
Kristy: Yeah, you heard me. I can't do it because I'm pregnant, but I have plenty of friends who would just love to.
Kristy: Let me see, you're probably only going to be a 10th grader
Kristy: and your screen name says baker
Angelia: oh lets see im not in 10th grade
Angelia: and baker gives you a whole lot of info
Kristy: Then why the number 89?
Angelia: um maybe because thats the year i was born slut
Kristy: exactly.
Kristy: which is TWO years AFTER me
Kristy: so either you'll be a 9th grader or a 10th grader
Angelia: yeah look for me in 10th grade
Angelia: ill love for your friends to come onto our campus and beat me up
Kristy: You aren't worth the time.
Angelia: more like you'll be bust breast feeding
Kristy: Do you mean busy breast feeding?
Kristy: Yeah, I will be.
Kristy: Got a problem with that?
Angelia: no you have a little kid suck your tit and get plessure from it
Kristy: Right.
Kristy: Okay, you need to get some help.
Kristy: You and you're perverted mind is a little too much.
Angelia: yeah you like it
Kristy: Only someone with major issues would even think to say something like that.
Angelia: oh yeah but even worse to do it
Angelia: like you!
Kristy: So breast feeding is something women shouldn't do?
Angelia: women.. not little girls
Kristy: And really, I have nothing to say to you anymore.
Angelia: oo nothing left
Kristy: Oh, I have plenty more I can say, but I'm not going to.
Angelia: say it then
Angelia: u want to tell me how you fucked your life up some more
Angelia: are you on crack to
Kristy: My life isn't fucked up.
Kristy: It's not like the normal teenage life.
Kristy: But it isn't fucked up.
Angelia: yeha it is
Angelia: married tied down at 16
Angelia: pregnant
Kristy: Yes, I'm married but I don't see it as being tied down.
Angelia: is that the first guy you ever been with
Kristy: Yes
Kristy: First and last.
Angelia: thats messed up. u should have done it w/ 2 more guys so u kow whats good or no
Kristy: Do I care? Do I want to have slept around with a bunch of guys? No.
Kristy: Did I get married just because I got pregnant? No.
Kristy: We were planning on getting married anyways.
Angelia: yeah
Angelia: and then you got knocked up
Angelia: and he had to marry you
Kristy: Right.
Kristy: Well, it was nice talking with you.
Kristy: But really, I have to go.
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My 13 year old brother-in-law also really says things that digs into my skin. He DOES have a mental disability that makes him act like an 10 year old. I understand that. But he also knows right from wrong. He just prefers the wrong over the right.
------------passed couple of days-------------
Gunnar: I'm going to throw this ball at your stomach. I don't care if it hurts your baby.
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Me: *In White Rock, BC sitting down on a few rocks leading down to the bay.*
Gunnar: You're going to fall and kill yourself and I'll be happy.
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Gunnar talking to a cousin: Kristy tryings to act so perfect but she's a stupid whore. She doesn't even pay for things for herself. She makes my mom do all of it!
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There are quite a few more, but I love him because he's my brother-in-law...it just hurts that he hates me so much.
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Upon entering the Canadian border, you're required to show your birth certificate and ID....here's what happened.
Lady: Um okay...how is Kristy related to this car?
FIL: My step-son's wife.
Lady: ...right. How old is she?
FIL: 16.
Lady: *glaring at me* 16 and married?
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I wanted to roll down my window and say "Yeah, and I'm pregnant too. Got a problem with that? I understand that they have to ask those questions...but with that attitude and voice? God...it made me feel like trash.
eww. I'm really sorry so many people are being so mean to you.
but hun, I gotta ask, Why spend any of your time talking to an asshole like that girl? You dont owe her shit, you dont need to explain yourself or justify yourself. its obvious she was just being vicious and ignorant.
and there's nothing wrong with being a "slut." If I wanna go sleep with random people, thats okay, cause this is my body and its on me.
dont let that be taken as an insult.
((hugs)) maybe talk to someone about your step bro, cause thats just fucked.
Yuck! How do you even know this girl?
I'm with rosie on this one, she sounds like an asshole. Why is there so much negativity flying around everywhere?
I'd say, block her on your messanger.
Sorry you've had to deal with such crap, people are so mean.
I didn't know her...she just IMed me. I blocked her, but she found my other screen names from someone. That whole conversation took 5 minutes out of day...I regret responding now, but at the time I was in shock.
Honestly, I didn't want to offend anyone at all by this post. I understand completly that it's my body, my choice. More power to people if they want to have sex with multiple partners. I know if I wasn't with Channing, I probably would. It's just that it hurt so bad to have someone call me those things and tell me I "fucked up" my life you know?
Again, I just wanted to rant and rave. I'm seriously sorry if this offends anyone.
I am sorry you had to deal with that. Don't waste your time with her. You are a wonderful person and you don't need to explain that to anyone :)
As for your brother-in-law, have you talked to your hubby about this? He should atleast respect your hubby and not do that.
I hope you feel better! Don't worry about it! :)
And what age is old enough to have a baby??
on AIM you can block a person when the say something you don't like.
Don't let the conversation get that far.
I'm feeling much better. Just a lot of anger bottled up inside you know? Yup, I did block her on my regular AIM, but I have the spiffy new AIM were I link all my screen names together. She found all of them. *sigh.*
Its okay though, I know who I am and what I stand for and no matther what someone says to me, I'm not going to change.
thats terrible, Im sorry that happened to you.
I am so sorry. I know how it is to get looks cause you got married so young. I'm 18 and married to a man thats more than 10 years older than me.
Last I checked there wasnt an age limit on having children either. Fuck, there are grown women out there who are killing their children for God's sake. Why look down on young mom's like they are irresponsible! I was only 18 when I had my first son and I was and still am the best mother I know how to do. I make sure my kids are safe, I dont beat them and I provide for them, I dont know what else is needed.
Dont waste your time with that asshole.
i'm 16, pregnant, and engaged.. so i sorta know how you feel i guess. i think its shitty that some people don't understand but its their misfortune they dont know what its like to be in love and have goals in life they could never imagine. don't let it get to ya.. theres always going to be someone like that :roll:
i'm 16, pregnant, and engaged.. so i sorta know how you feel i guess. i think its shitty that some people don't understand but its their misfortune they dont know what its like to be in love and have goals in life they could never imagine. don't let it get to ya.. theres always going to be someone like that :roll:
Be in love? Sorry but I have to laugh,
Yuck, just reading that first conversation made me cringe. She's what 14 and she talks like that? That's disgusting.
Also don't worry about what other people say, yes your 16, married and pregnant but thats your buisness. I'm 17 with 2 kids and i am proud.
Also little does that girl know but 16 is the consentual age to have sex. Who gives 2 shits if your 16 and only been with 1 guy thats your decision and have decided to spend your life with someone. She shouldnt make fun of it. I know plenty of girls who have only been with 1 guy and have been with them for years and have talked about marriage.
Seeing how this topic may hurt someone to read, I'm going to be PMing the mod_squad to see if this topic can be deleted or locked.
I was unaware at the time that many GMers here feel uncomfortable when having to read something about a spouse. And that makes me uncomfortable to have to make them read about it.
Thats horrible. My sister used to say stuff like what your brother said about your mom giving you stuff, since i havent been able to work recently. I just ignored her and eventually she stopped.