My now ex-best friends acted like they were there for through my pregnancy, but when I call them and ask them if they can hurry and drive me to the hospital they thought I was lying. "Manda" just said, "You got yourself pregnant you can probably take yourslef there." That was when I truely learned that they were the friends I thought they were. "Manda" and "Molly" have gotten a job where my b/f works and always call me and say how they are going to break us up and when I leave notes like "Death to your family" on my door. I'm petrified of what she may do... Why can't they just leave me alone?
They sound a little nutty. That's not normal behavior and there must be something going on. Do they have a crush on your boyfriend?
Do your bewst to cut off ties with them, no good could come from trying to remain friends. Don't call them, if they call you, hang up. if they leave threatening notes, call the police.
They are CRAZY!! Yeah I agree with you all the way there. Yes they did. "Manda" used to date him. They were having problems so they broke up. My b/f says they broke up and he was single for 2 months than he became interested in me. She would still call him though as if they we still together and he would have to constantly tell her thet they have moved on and done. Thank you for replying and thanks for the advice.
IM sorry you have to deal with that. they sound like they have some major issues... could you and/or your boyfriend get your number changed? or report it as harassment to the police and get a restraining order? I hope things start to look up for you
people can be so hatefull. one way you might look at it, if this girl thinks that she might get her " boyfriend back" she might be trying to run you off, she might also feel intimited by your baby because thats an ultimate tie to your bd. so that may drive her to extremes because she probably can just sit back and cause strife and watch it crumble. you have a reason to make it work so she might trying to work extra hard. but by all means do everything to keep them out of your life. dont think exfriend, think enemy. and your boyfriend should step up and change the number, change jobs. call the police this is an assault on his family and yours. relationships are hard enough with out others making it their lives work to destroy them. if anymore threats happen. call the police. if something really bad happens you will have history on record and that will make it easier to prosecute them
Thanks lxlblondie16lxl. I wish everyday that would just GO AWAY! Yeah, I told him that we need to get our number changed. At least we won't be getting those stupid phone calls from her in the wee hours of the morning. I already have a sick baby I need her added to my stress level. You are amazing to have evaluated it like that firefly1! After I read that it all made sense to me! Thank you so much for that!! :D I can finally view this situation better. Thank you guys for all your advice. You have truely helped. :BIGhug: