Ok um well it goes like this I have a kid to my bd and am engaged to someone else and a few months ago bd told me he still loved me and for some reason I just cant say no! So we had sex twice on two seperate occasions and now I'm pregnant. But the thing is after I had sex with BD i went home to my fiance and had sex with him too, as to I dont know.... not look sus so yeah now I'mkind of in a pickle cause I dont know who the BD of this pregnancy is!!!!!
Wow, my thoughts are totally with you. I guess I would ask, who do you love? Do you want to be with your fiance? Do you want to be with BD? Who has stuck with you? If your engaged, and your fiance is going to accept your child as his, then I don't see him having a problem with another child around. Granted, I don't know how thrilled he would be to find out it might not be his. But being honest is best. Hiding something like that is bad for the both of you. Then I would go to BD, and explain to him that you don't love him and that if he really feels the way he does about you, then he respects you enough to let you move on with your life. If it's your fiance you don't love anymore, I would go with the same approach. Just know, that you should be happy with yourself! And never need anyone else to make you happy! Just be happy with you and your children, no matter who their fathers are!
I think that you really need to be upfront with your fiance about what happend, and you need to so some thinking about who you want to be with.
I agree with Kat.
You really need to tell him, if only for the sake of being able to tell the child (and im assuming you're keeping it?) who the father is.
Plus, you apperently had unprotected sex with your BD and your fiance needs to know that.
Although i obviously dont know the guy to tell you if hes genuine,I can tell you from personal experience, that your kids dad isnt gonna want to see you with anyone else, even if he doesnt really want you. Are you sure this isnt just a tactic to keep you from getting married?
Think about where your life would go with each of them, and how you feel for each of them.
Regardless, your gonna have to tell your fiance at some point. It'll come out, lies always do. It's just gonna him hurt more the longer you wait.