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SkyKid45
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does anyone else have it? I have it SO BAD. It seems like all my friends are having babies that are so tiny and cute! I DONT want to ttc but i miss being pregnant, you know feeling the baby move around and i miss having a tiny little baby! I hope this gets better b/c i dont plan on another one till Eric is at least 2. But still, this baby lust is driving me crazy!

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lol. i have baby lust all the time. Other times its crazy but now im just like, oh well what else is new?

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You can count me in the baby lust club.....my "baby" is three years old *cry*. He is our last child. But it's hard, our whole family has baby lust. My six year old daughter tells me all the time that all she wants is just one tiny little baby sister (she says she'd take care of her all by herself,lol). I know there is no way I could handle another child. So I always wonder why I'm always lusting for a baby. I think maybe it's just a biological urge that, for some people doesn't go away even if you have a ton of babies.

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Count me in!! I swear I keep seeing pregnant women or watching the BIRTHDAY show on Discovery and find myself happy cause I want one but crying cause I want one!! AHHH! I was reading a magazine today(a parenting one) and had prgenant women before and after and what they didnt expect and what they miss... AHH!! I want baby!! LOL!

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oh i've got definite baby lust... i'm in the land of big kids over here, with the 6 and 4.5 year olds. my baby's going off to elementary school in August!

i know for me, i'm really far removed from the baby experience and so i know i idealize it. having a newborn was wonderful and beautiful, but as my kid's gotten older, i've gotten SPOILED. i know it'll be a much harder adjustment this time, to go from the relative ease of big kids, to the neediness of a baby again. i still want to, but honestly, when i think about baby lust, i mainly think about how sexy and beautiful i'll be with my big belly, how amazing the birth will be, and how cute the sweet little scrunchy baby will be in a sleeper curled up on alli's chest...

Dylan, the 4.5 year old, begs me almost daily for a "stister," and i want to give him one soon. alli and i are in the planning stages, which is a bit more difficult with the lack of sperm and all. :)

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Hey..anytime you have baby lust...you can come on over and watch Orion when hes born!!!! hehe :D

Trust me, I had MAJOR baby lust before I got pregnant again. I think its normal. I had gotten soo used to sharing my body, that once is was MINE again, it was weird to me.

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ive got babylust too. alexa is going to be one in a few weeks and its making me sad i feel like ive missed sooo much but im with her every day.

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I don't want a baby, but I have total pregnancy lust. I didn't get to enjoy the majority of my pregnancy and I want to make up for that. Plus, it was the only time in my life that I wore fitted, body skimming clothes and felt really comfortable with it.

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i have baby lust like CRAZY... and i pretty much always do!! before i got pregnant... now after... i LOVED being pregnant (well other than the HORRIBLE morning sickness, but once it got past that it was GREAT)

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To be the desenting voice- no, I get slight baby lust sometimes, and then I realize that I never want anymore and I'm so happy that Zoe's not a baby anymore!

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I Don't Get Baby lust I get Baby STUFF Lust. If I could I would go to eveyones baby shower in the world because I love picking out baby stuff. As for baby lust I don't think I'll ever have that because I hated being pregnant and I wasn't a fan of the newborn stage.

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miguelsmommy wrote:
I Don't Get Baby lust I get Baby STUFF Lust. If I could I would go to eveyones baby shower in the world because I love picking out baby stuff. As for baby lust I don't think I'll ever have that because I hated being pregnant and I wasn't a fan of the newborn stage.

exactly, I am amazed at all the stuff they have! especially the tiny little cloth diapers and the ones for girls! I could just die at the cuteness
I dont really want a little baby i just want to dress one lol!

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you guys it got 1000x worse since i was at the l&d at the hospital yesterday and looking at all the tiny babies!! I told justin that i had b.l. and he was like, uh i dont want another one yet. lol. They are sooo tiny!

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Oh I so do... that's why I keep coming back to this site.... I mean, I don't want to be annoying with all my questions, but I really want one someday and I want to learn. Chris keeps teasing me for looking at babies I see in public.

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I know, I love looking at babies.
M says I look like I'm about to steal one. :roll:

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yeah i do.... but i know i can't afford one. my friends are having babies and lyric is almost 4! i miss how little she was, but she gets more fun as she gets older :)... i just think i totally could not handle 2 right now hehe :) but sometimes yes a little baby would be nice :)

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I have baby/preg/baby stuff lust *sigh*. Horrible as it is, what keeps me from having another one(well mainly) is my weight. I dont want to be any bigger than I am. So ive promised myself to wait until ive lost 30lbs and then I can consider another one. Im also wanting to get a yr into college first. LUST LUST LUST LUST LUST. And when youre lusting all you see is what youre lusting after. EVERYONE is either pregnant or has an itty bitty baby...well it seems that way. Ya know? Its like I dont notice that many pregnant women, and then , WHAM! As soon as I start thinking about it every woman I see is pregnant!!!!! :evil: LOL

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I have pregnancy and baby lust. I know my youngest is still in her baby ages, but she's growing fast and will be celebrating her 1st birthday before I realize it! When I take the kid(s) to the doctor I see little 1-4 month old babies and I totally want Teresa to go back to that age! I have baby lust pretty much constantly and seeing pregnant women or walking by a maternity clothing store in that mall makes me get the good ole' pregnancy lust again, although having another kid is SO not a priority now.

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I want another baby sooooo bad. My little man Ethan will be 3 in May and it sux, because I'm not in the right place yet in my life to have a second one, but I don't want Ethan and his sibling to be too far apart, I almost think they might be already...who knows, I've been half-jokingingly declaring that I'm going off my Depo shots in a year, when I am settled in my transfer school, but I dunno, Mica wants more but he worries too much about money and crap, even though he wont tell me why he worries, he'll still say no no more.......oh well

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I want another baby insanely badly. Luckily we live near lots of babies (my neighbor has a 4 month old) and I have long term bc so it isn't gonna happen for a while.

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I follow young kids and babies around as they toddle/crawl/walk all over.

And I recently stopped myself from making up a birth plan.

I talk to G. about "our child" all the time.

And it makes me cry that I have at least three more years to go.

I think part of the reason for my lust is that my baby sister was born when I was fifteen- not the same as having my own child, but I did help a lot with the daily care of the baby- and she will be 7 next week. My baby isn't really mine, but shes growing up sooooooo fast :-(

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I'm guilty... I, too, have baby lust. Actually I like it more now that Rylee is a LITTLE more independent, but I miss being pregnant (even though I was miserable) and buying all the fun little stuff. I know I'm not ready to have another one, but I do miss it. I just wish I could be pregnant and have Rylee all over again so I could try to enjoy it more.

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Oh god...I have such baby lust...My little man is almost four!

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i get baby lust and then when jayden is screaming at three in the morning it suddenly goes away lol. i think i just miss being pregnant.

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Yes most of the time I have hard core baby lust. I have four friends who are pregnant right now and one with a two week old. River is only 8 1/2 mos and we can't afford another baby right now but I have decided that if we don't have one by the time R. is 5 then I don't want another. I am hoping we can start trying after our wedding next year. Trying seems like so much fun. We weren't trying with Rivie, he was a *peekaboo* baby :lol:

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i see here all the pregnant girls here about being pregnant with thier 1st, 2nd and 3rd and so on and DAMN!! I am happy but JEalous!! LOL!

I have sooo MUCH BABY LUST I am going to go nuts!! LOL!

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I have a three week old baby and when I look at him I'm all "He's so cute", but at the same time I wish he was big already b/cuz then I could do stuff with him, not just watch him sleep. So, I guess I don't really have baby lust.

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I do... I can't wait to put myself at the bottom of the 'when are you due' list. But I know it makes more sense to wait.

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Kyamo wrote:
I do... I can't wait to put myself at the bottom of the 'when are you due' list. But I know it makes more sense to wait.

thats how i feel too. Plus the lack of sperm makes in nearly impossible for me to get pregant... oh well the time will come.