I have back problems due to back surgery when I was 15 and recently I was dx with Fibromylagia. It's hard being a disabled mama but there are things and people that make it easier. We're expecting our second baby and I'm having a crib special made for this little one that is for parents in wheelchairs. It opens from the side so I don't have to bed over a rail to pick baby up. But I'm curious are there other physically disabled mama's out there and what things make your life easier
Hey mama.
I don't personally have a physical disability, but my father was completely paralyzed and in a wheelchair before he died. I also volunteer with the organize for the disease he had that caused him to be in a wheelchair so I love to help out whenever I can. I undertand how hard it can be to live in a world that isn't completely accessible. I thought that it'd be nice to introduce myself to you because while I haven't been there myself, I do have experience with a physical disability and I can relate somewhat.
The crib you're getting sounds really cool and like it would help a lot.
I'm Lori, 22 year old mother to Tenzin (3.5). If you ever want to talk, you can PM me - I'd love to be here to support you. :) I also have access to a lot of resources, if you ever want me to find info regarding things that are available to you. I'll be away until Aug. 5th, but don't hesitate to get in touch with me.
I really admire your strength - this is a hard world for those who use wheelchairs - to get through that while being an amazing mother is really wonderful to hear about :)
Thank you much Lori! I will probably pm you sometimes. People make some horrible remarks to people with disabilities adn I've discovered they tend to be snottier when you are a parent
Howdy howdy,
I am 23 and was diagnosed with RPMS (rapid progressive multiple sclerosis) and chronic fatigue syndrome not too long ago. Since my diagnosis I have lost most grip strength on my left side, the ability to stand more than 15 minutes at a time, and 30 percent of my perephrial vision on the left side, along with some other old people stuff lol.
It is very difficult being disabled and having children. Luckily there are lots of programs available, unfortunately none are suited specifically for disabled mothers geared towards easier care and what not. I've done my research to no avail but I keep looking!
My daughter is 2 1/2 and is much more compationate and caring *much more mild* than children her age. She's always the first one to fix booboos and owwies. She gets very concerned with people that cry and has the habit of "shushing" everyone and everything. *I sleep A LOT* My disadvantage has given my daughter a jump on things most kids won't grasp for years. I just wish there were mom/kid programs available to give us a better outlet or should i say more accessable outlet, for help and resources.