I have been thinking alot about this guy i dated last year lately. I'm not sure why... i liked this guy ALOT, but at the time he was living out of state and wasn't going to be back until July. We hit it off right away and had alot in common. He wanted a big family and had a lot of the same goals for his family and kids as i did. It was just perfect it seemed like. Nothing really went wrong, we just had pretty much that one night were we stayed up ALL night and talked about everything and nothing and i loved it. But he went back to Illinios and i just never really called him becuase i figured he was to busy for a realtionship and i didn't really need to deal with a long distance one at the time, so i just kinda left it at the couple of nights that we had, and the few weeks that we talked on the phone. Well he called me about 2 months ago and wanted to hang out, but we just kinda said okay well talk to you later, and never called each other. But i have been thinking about him ALOT and i dont know what to do about it, should i call him, see him? i am in a very serious realtionship with the love of my life and i don't want to do anything to hurt that, but i just cant get him out of my head, and wonder "what if" what if me and Codi were to get together? Just all these things. Me and jeremy have been together for the better part of 3 years and we love each other more than anything... BUT! i really liked this guy and i honestly saw a future with him... i just don't know what to do. Should i call him, ask to see him, hang out with him... i would tell jeremy if i do, i don't want to lie to him or hurt him. Okay well that's it... any advice would be great.