I belive in LUST at first sight, and i think that you can have a serious crush on someone after not knowing them very long, but i think loves takes awhile to become, i guess you could say?
I believe you can feel a strong connection to someone the first time you meet them. And that connection might lead to a lasting relationship and love, but I don't think you can love someone without knowing them inside and out.
When I first met my fiance, I knew there was something different. I don't know if I would call it love at first sight or a knowledge of something better to come. If that makes any sense
well lust I guess. That's how I met my bd. I was like wow he's cute I want to kiss him....and we've been together since I did :D But still there IS something different. It was in the kiss though....not in the first sight...
Yea when I met BD i didnt even look at him, he was quite drunk and wouldnt leave me alone, I didnt even stop to look at him, but in the end sat with him and we ended up talking for about 3 hours that night, then he kissed me before I left and from then...there was something. I kind of knew it was different...im not sure how though.
if you wanna know if he loves you so, its in his kiiiiiissssssssss
ok.. had to get that out.
Oh no that's not the way, and you're not listening to all that I say.. :D
To answer the question- No. No love at first sight. A connection, maybe. Funny little "what if?" butterflies, sure. Lust, totally.
The only "love" at first sight I've felt was with my daughter and even then it took time to grasp the reality of parenting and my relationship with her and I had 9 months of planning and hoping and waiting to "fall in love."
if you wanna know if he loves you so, its in his kiiiiiissssssssss
ok.. had to get that out.
I totally thought that when I read your post. But i didnt want to say it because I thought every one would think i was nuts! Good to see you guys know your oldies.
The first love of my life, I met when I was 12. I knew right away when I saw him that I'd love him. It wasn't lust, because really, I was notttt physically attracted to him at all, but I loved him with all my heart. We were together for 4 years, then I messed up and it ended, and we're still best friends, and I still will always love him.
I applaude you for having your own beliefs, but I'm not convinced hat love at first sight is real,except only in the movies. (I believe in lust at first sight)mwa!
The first time I saw my son after giving birth was love at first sight. (There are lots of kinds of love.) As for romantic love, I don't know, but I feel like if love at first sight is possible for one kind of love it should be for another kind of love too, ya know?
jaxsonmomma and hilary i feel the same way. i love ed my son the firs time i saw him on utrasound. i also think that love at first sight happens to some pple but maybe not everyone. i met my bf from the internet and things went well hes comming down again dec 10 and i couldnt be more in love. we both feel the same way about each other thank you evryone for your replies
Well, had I seen this question a few months ago, I would've been like, "Oh yeah," but ummm, nope. That turned out to be a wayyyyyyyyy bad relationship, that I thought was "Love at first sight." So, I've learned that if I ever feel that way again, I'll turn around and run away from that person as fast as I can. LoL :?
It's lust. The reason people can say they had love at first sight is after they know the person, they fall in love, maybe that lust never disappeared so the feelings all mesh together and become a blur in hindsight so you say "yeah, I think it was the minute I saw him/her."
I had a boyfriend like that. The connection and lust were blindingly amazing, and after we fell in love it was like we always had been.
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love at first sight
i just wana know if anyone here believes in love at first sight
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I belive in LUST at first sight, and i think that you can have a serious crush on someone after not knowing them very long, but i think loves takes awhile to become, i guess you could say?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
im not sure if ther is love at first sight but i have heard of it being lust
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I believe you can feel a strong connection to someone the first time you meet them. And that connection might lead to a lasting relationship and love, but I don't think you can love someone without knowing them inside and out.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
notyouraveragemomma what you made sense thank you soooo much!
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I agree that there can be lust at first site. Its not possible to love someone without knowing them.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
When I first met my fiance, I knew there was something different. I don't know if I would call it love at first sight or a knowledge of something better to come. If that makes any sense
Do you believe in love at first sight?
see thats how i feel with this guy im dating now for a month there is something different about him or with him.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
lust but not love.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
i absolutely dont believe in love at first sight
Do you believe in love at first sight?
well lust I guess. That's how I met my bd. I was like wow he's cute I want to kiss him....and we've been together since I did :D But still there IS something different. It was in the kiss though....not in the first sight...
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yea when I met BD i didnt even look at him, he was quite drunk and wouldnt leave me alone, I didnt even stop to look at him, but in the end sat with him and we ended up talking for about 3 hours that night, then he kissed me before I left and from then...there was something. I kind of knew it was different...im not sure how though.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
if you wanna know if he loves you so, its in his kiiiiiissssssssss
ok.. had to get that out.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Oh no that's not the way, and you're not listening to all that I say.. :D
To answer the question- No. No love at first sight. A connection, maybe. Funny little "what if?" butterflies, sure. Lust, totally.
The only "love" at first sight I've felt was with my daughter and even then it took time to grasp the reality of parenting and my relationship with her and I had 9 months of planning and hoping and waiting to "fall in love."
Do you believe in love at first sight?
yah it is in his kisss lol i know there's something different like i said before butni wasnt too sure un til i planted a kiss on his lips lol
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I totally thought that when I read your post. But i didnt want to say it because I thought every one would think i was nuts! Good to see you guys know your oldies.
now I am gonna be singing this song all day
Do you believe in love at first sight?
hahhaa
Do you believe in love at first sight?
i love that song sooo much it makes think of my SO
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I agree with Britt and everyone else, if you can't tell by the way you seel around him you can definately tell by his kiss.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
feel not seel sorry
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I believe in it, but I'm just corny like that.
The first love of my life, I met when I was 12. I knew right away when I saw him that I'd love him. It wasn't lust, because really, I was notttt physically attracted to him at all, but I loved him with all my heart. We were together for 4 years, then I messed up and it ended, and we're still best friends, and I still will always love him.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
naivete i love the song in your sig...thats my karaoke song haha :wink:
Do you believe in love at first sight?
i believe in it, the moment i saw my finace i knew i loved him and would be with him forever!
I'm not convinced
I applaude you for having your own beliefs, but I'm not convinced hat love at first sight is real,except only in the movies. (I believe in lust at first sight)mwa!
Do you believe in love at first sight?
The first time I saw my son after giving birth was love at first sight. (There are lots of kinds of love.) As for romantic love, I don't know, but I feel like if love at first sight is possible for one kind of love it should be for another kind of love too, ya know?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
jaxsonmomma and hilary i feel the same way. i love ed my son the firs time i saw him on utrasound. i also think that love at first sight happens to some pple but maybe not everyone. i met my bf from the internet and things went well hes comming down again dec 10 and i couldnt be more in love. we both feel the same way about each other thank you evryone for your replies
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Well, had I seen this question a few months ago, I would've been like, "Oh yeah," but ummm, nope. That turned out to be a wayyyyyyyyy bad relationship, that I thought was "Love at first sight." So, I've learned that if I ever feel that way again, I'll turn around and run away from that person as fast as I can. LoL :?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
IMO no. I dont think i looked at my husband and said thats the man for the rest of my life. Im not saying other people didnt do so. But i didnt.
I agree with some of the girls where they say lust yeah..hell yeah.."wudnt mind a bit of that arse in my grasp" and all that. :wink:
Do you believe in love at first sight?
It's lust. The reason people can say they had love at first sight is after they know the person, they fall in love, maybe that lust never disappeared so the feelings all mesh together and become a blur in hindsight so you say "yeah, I think it was the minute I saw him/her."
I had a boyfriend like that. The connection and lust were blindingly amazing, and after we fell in love it was like we always had been.