well J has started the drugs again and everything outta his mouth is a lie. So I broke up w/ him for good this time.
hes living at his parents house now and though weve only been broken up a couple weeks, every time he gets his work paycheck he says he'll give it to me and i never hear from him. He'll get his check on Fri. then go party all weekend w/ his friends while im paying off over $1,300 OF Debt we are in. ( so far I only have like 50 bucks left to pay off, our checking account was negative so I used MY monthly social security check to pay most of it off... and as a result im broke now and my mom is trying to help pay my rent, bills, ect.
J is living at his parents house! has no bills, eats for free, and yet I spent all my own money paying off debts that were BOTH of ours (I had to, the account is in both our names) AND I have reeni to take care of. I told him friday to make sure he gives me money because reeni need a new carseat, this one isnt safe. he said OK, that he'd be back in an hour w/it. well , that was 2 days ago, and im sure his money's long gone.
He said before he got it that his mom was going to make him give his whole check to her, to save in case i go for back child support. she's being a real bitch about this, acting like I have no right to see any of that money, when I supported her son completly for the first year we were together!
Anyway, how long will it take to get child support? I could put a restraining order on him to make it go faster but I dont really wanna do that, it seems like overkill. But I have no money. also J said his mom is taking his money and paying off his old debts with it.. and giving him an allowance out of it . Like an ancient hospital bill is more important that reeni's car seat??? :evil: can I get a percentage of all hes made before i technically get custody? Itll be easy to get it, I know, based on his current lifestyle.
Sorry this turned into a huge rant.... im just so mad right now, and hurt. :(