hey... so i had my baby almost 3 weeks ago. I had no stitches or tears or any thing. I really want to have sex but when we try everything is so much tighter now so he cant fit in me. Like i can barely get my finger in. What should i do?? Im on birth control, i got the Depo-Provera shot so im ready to go. But im afraid that i will never be able to do it again because it stings. What should i do?!?!