Okay, so I'm talking to BD right now, he's asking if I picked out any name, and he said he hasn't really thought of anything. I came across one name, and he's like "Yeah. That sounds good. _____ ______", as he put the baby's first name, and his last name together. I was like, "Wait...what did you say?" and then I mentioned something about the name sounding cornball because it sort of rhymes with BD's first name, and then he's like, "Wait, back up, what do you mean, '?', is that?"
We're still arguing about baby's last name, and about the hyphenated thing, and he said, "Well fine then, if that's the case, then nevermind, just use your name". The reason being he's so high strung about his last name is Cae has mine and that was his 1rst son, and he didn't even get his last name, and he said something about his family name dying out if this baby is a boy, and doesn't get his last name, something about him going to a family reunion this August...idk.
The thing is, I'm so sick of him and his little tantrums he's pulling. I already laid the whole, "What the fuck are you doing for us?" thing on him, and he's still not getting it. I'm seriously thinking of just hyphenating the name, but I feel like shit for not going with his one simple request. I hate this, how can I deal with it, and how can at least put it in words that the least I am doing by hyphenating the name is putting his name first...I still want the baby to have my name, you know?
I hope I'm having a girl, in spite of his fucking witless outburst. :x