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How do you clean up after sex with a man?

What is your routine for cleaning up afterwards? Assuming you don't use a condom?

I've never liked condoms, but I also wake up at night if I feel sticky and gooey.

Paper towels make me feel wasteful, bath towels make me afraid the kids or the dog will get to it . .

I jsut want to know what YOU do.

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get up and go pee. i've used tissues and chucked them in the garbage right after but that feels clinical or something. plus its always good to pee after sex! it can be a drag having to book it through the chilly house all naked just to do it, and definitely isn't really conducive to prolonging that post sex after glow numb feeling, but after a couple bad UTIs and a dislike of that icky gooey feeling i've made it worth my while.

another option is to have him finish somewhere other than inside of you. then you can use tissues (its kinda wasteful but just use one or two) and just a one swipe at it.

side note: i had some baby wipes left over after my baby was potty trained, and i found they were the BEST sperm goo cleaners i ever tried. disposable wipes definitely = bad for the enviro but thats a dif thread i guess.

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I always pee after because I'm UTI prone. I sometimes wet the tissue with warm water when I wipe.

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I go pee, wipe/squeeze out as much as I can and deal with the rest in the morning. Other times we jump in the shower afterwards, but I still tend to leak in the night.

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Peeing afterwards is a definate. Have you tried wearing a panty liner to bed after? It might leave you feeling less gooey.

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Usually I pee afterwards, sit on the toilet for a few minutes and squeeze it out. I have pretty strong vaginal muscles, and can usually get the huge gobs out no problem. Some's left in, but not enough for it to leak out too much or cause a gooey feeling

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I pee right away...I'm very UTI prone. I always still feel gooey in the morning, though. Barf.

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i pee and baby wipe imediatly afterwards. sometimes i use a wet rag and throw it in the dirty laundry or just strait into the washing machine so i know it wont be tampered with untill its clean

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I'm not prone to UTIs, so usually I'll just lay there and cuddle for a while and not worry about it, then get up and take a shower. If I'm planning sex, and it's not spur-of-the-moment, I keep a towel next to the bed, then it goes straight into the hamper so there's no risk of anyone else using it.

I know a few women who always put a towel down on the bed first, and don't move off of it, but that makes for a boring sex life if you ask me!

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I just pee and wipe off anything on the outside with the toilet paper, and anything that leaks out later just feels like extra vaginal discharge and doesn't bother me.

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i wipe off and try to get it all off/ out but i usually pee as soon after so i can wipe then . also sometimes i just say dont come in me and he comes somewhere else like the trash or i dunno a towel or anywhere but like somewherethat is thrown out or washed. i dont really like if theres a lot of cum in me if we havent done it in a while i'll say he cant come in me lol

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Ive used baby wipes, before I even had a baby. They always seemed to work for me..*and im a big astroglide user, aswell!!!* Peeing was always a definate aswell....Thats why i love morning sex...i jump right into the shower..

Ugg..i HATE that gooey feeling!

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I pee and wipe myself with a towel, i've read it's good to pee especially because of UTI.

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*beams* I just cuddle and bask in the after-sex glow. Then it's papertowels for me

--Kris

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I have to ask..what does UTI mean?

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Elli wrote:
I have to ask..what does UTI mean?

Urinary Tract Infection

After getting a few bad uti's i don't lay in bed and fall asleep anymore. i have to get up and pee, and i kind of sit for a few mins to let it all come out, then wipe off.

i've been asked before what i was doing or if i was ok since i got up and went to the potty, my response "what goes in must come out".

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how do i clean up after sex with a man?

throw away the condom...

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He never comes in me unless by absolute accident. He's ultra-paranoid about me getting pregnant even though I'm on the pill. So, it always ends up on my stomach or back (depending on the position we're in). We just use a bath towel to wipe up or bf uses one of his shirts. We don't have any pets and the kids aren't allowed in our bedroom, so we don't have to worry about them getting into anything.

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I always pee right after sex becuz im very prone to UTI's as well. But depending on where he came...if its on me we use whatever is there..usually a bath towel, a beater, or tissues....if its in me, i usually try to get it all out with a bath towel...wish i had baby wipes...but eww this might be TMI but i hate when a guy comes in you and then u think you have it all out and then you stand up and more comes running out...blaahhh! Please tell me im not the only one that, that happens to lol!

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Majestic05 wrote:
I always pee right after sex becuz im very prone to UTI's as well. But depending on where he came...if its on me we use whatever is there..usually a bath towel, a beater, or tissues....if its in me, i usually try to get it all out with a bath towel...wish i had baby wipes...but eww this might be TMI but i hate when a guy comes in you and then u think you have it all out and then you stand up and more comes running out...blaahhh! Please tell me im not the only one that, that happens to lol!

What's worse: Thirty minutes to an hour later, your sitting in the car and you get out to go in the gas station and you go "uh-oh."

Hah, my friend did this once wearing my pants. I told her she could keep them.

I definitely know what you're talking about first hand though. Sometimes there can actually be a LOT left in ya too. Like one time I ended up having to wipe it off my feet on the way to a concert SEVERAL minutes after i'd already cleaned up...

Hah, actually, we think that paticular sperm session is when Emmie was conceived.

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i just goto sleep! if i have to pee i pee!

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I know what you mean about the cum coming out later after u think its all gone! i dont really like BD to come in me bc of the mess... i am pregnant now but once i am not he will not be coming in me EVER!! i do not want another baby right away!! thats what im gonna be scared of once im not pregnant... is getting pregnant again.

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katie87 wrote:
thats what im gonna be scared of once im not pregnant... is getting pregnant again.

I am terrified!! :shock:

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Majestic05 wrote:
I always pee right after sex becuz im very prone to UTI's as well. But depending on where he came...if its on me we use whatever is there..usually a bath towel, a beater, or tissues....if its in me, i usually try to get it all out with a bath towel...wish i had baby wipes...but eww this might be TMI but i hate when a guy comes in you and then u think you have it all out and then you stand up and more comes running out...blaahhh! Please tell me im not the only one that, that happens to lol!

haha, no it's happened to me too. sucks.

normally just use tissues, or an old t-shirt. nothin exciting. peein after sex doesnt help me much though, UTIs are a constant thing for me, sucks.

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I always pee right after sex becuz im very prone to UTI's as well. But depending on where he came...if its on me we use whatever is there..usually a bath towel, a beater, or tissues....if its in me, i usually try to get it all out with a bath towel...wish i had baby wipes...but eww this might be TMI but i hate when a guy comes in you and then u think you have it all out and then you stand up and more comes running out...blaahhh! Please tell me im not the only one that, that happens to lol!

This has happened to me plenty of times, but what is probably the worse was when I first started having sex. I was with my bd and he was only 15 and i was 16. I didnt drive yet so my mom would take me to his house. neither of our parents knew that we were having sex at the time so going to the bathroom right after didnt always happened. One time I had jeans on and my dad came early and his parents yelled back to his room to tell me that he was there and as soon as I stood up it all came running out. I had to walk past his parents like that THEN when I got into the car my dad asked what was all over my pants, I told him that the dog fell asleep on me and drooled all over me. :oops:

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That is one of the nice things about using condoms.

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We have these small square unbleached cloths that I throw in the laundry to clean up with. We keep a small stack of them in the bedside drawer. When they're running low, I'll throw them in the washing machine, and reuse them again.