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I fucking hate my boyfriends brother

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I fucking hate my boyfriends brother

he invited my boyfriend to go boating with him and some girls and i wasn't allowed to come,(jason didn't go) and then IMs me on aim asking me if im still mad at him. I told him yea cuz he asked jason to go boating with a bunch of girls And then tells me "ya sooo ur point to this"
so i said "umm that jason doesn't want to hang out with them"
and he said "o and he wants to hang out with some little girl that has some growing up to do u have more babysitters for that kid than u actully watch him i knew what you were like before jason

I FUCKING WATCH MY KID EVERY SINGLE SECOND THAT IM NOT AT SCHOOL, THE ONLY TIME THAT I GET A BREAK IS WHEN MY MOM WANTS TO WATCH HIM FOR ME, AND HOW THE HELL AM I GOING TO TELL MY MOM SHE CANT SEE HER GRANDSON. IM SO FUCKING UPSET RIGHT NOW IM JUST SITTING HERE CRYING. HE ALSO TOLD ME THAT NONE OF JASONS FAMILY LIKES ME AND EVERYONE THINKS IM A SELFISH BITCH. I NEVER WANT TO GO TO ANY FAMILY THING ANYMORE, I JUST WANT TO SIT HERE AND CRY AND NEVER GO ANYWHERE AGAIN. I CANT FUCKING STAND HIM.

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he's an asshole. Don't listen to him. You ARE a good mom. He may say that you're immature but he is FAR worse. He really has to shut the hell up. Maybe some day he WIL grow up and realize what a fucking asshat he is. There is NO reason for him to say anything like that to you. He was completly over the line. Don't let him get to you--that's exactly what he wants.

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BDs family is like basically the only family i have right now (besides my moms side but they are all like at least an hour away from me) Im so upset right now i cant believe how much of an asshole he was to me. Im just like sitting here crying, and i dont even know what to do.

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I'm sorry hun. It's not his place to judge even if you were leaving your kiddo with babysitters a lot. Until he's been a mother, and a young one that's still in school at that, it's not his place to say anything like that. Just because he says bds family doesn't like you doesn't make it true..he could be lying to try to get to you. Have you gotten the impression that they don't like you before this?

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No I dont. They are always nice to me, His mom always tells me how great of a mother I am and she always tells me to ignore Jason's brother (the one that said all the stuff to me) or to stick up to him, and all that cuz he is just mean to all women. I swear he thinks that all women are pieces of shit and they are just there for men to boss around. He's such a jerk. I showed Jason the IM and he is so mad. His brother Text Messaged him "bros before hoes" and he said "Yea you may be my brother but only by blood." I love Jason so much. :) he made me feel so much better.

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What a jerk! At least Jason is sticking by you. That's tough for him when he has to choose and it sounds like its ok. Just ignore him he's just trying to hurt you.

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I sounds to me like bd brother is jealous of all the attention ur getting. It may be hard to ignore him but I say to still try and I think its great that the rest of the family are nice so i say try to look to the positive!

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Yea I think Im okay about it now. BD's LITTLE brother came home yesterday and was completly nice to me, I think ur right, I think he is just mad that Jason didn't go boating with him and those girls. He thinks that I "control" jason, even though i know that is not the case. I let jason do what he wants and he lets me do what I want. I told Jason he could go boating and he said "Hell no I dont want to go with a bunch of girls" I didn't even know there was girls going until Jason told me. :( It just makes me mad that he is trying to Jason to cheat on me, or find a new girlfriend, cuz i know that is whats going on.

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aww. Jason seems like a great guy. And a loyal one. that's awsome.

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Thanks :lol: