So, I got a letter in the mail the other day from the Department of Human Services Office of Child Support telling me I HAVE to call them and tell them the where abouts of BD. If they don't get this information, they will take my Medicaid away from me and my son. The thing is, I don't know where he is. And the minimal info they need to locate him, I sadly do not know either. I know his full name (his middle name I'm unsure of), but I do not know his current address or his day of birth, but I know it's in June sometime. I have a deadline for this information and I'm stuck. What if I try and try and cannot get this info? I could care less about myself. I'm just so scared my son won't have health insurance. And if I had the money to pay all his doctor bills out of pocket, I would... but I don't. I did not know BD long enough to actually remember all his info word by word.
I drove past his house today to get his address, but last I heard he has moved out. His grandma still lives there tho, so I'm sure if something gets sent there for him she'll give it to him.
How the hell is a girl supposed to do it now days? What if a girl didn't even know the name of their childs father by chance, or any of his info... would she have to struggle paying doctor bills on her own? I mean, I understand someone has to pay these medical bills back, but it's just hard when it seems like BD has disappeared off the face of the earth and you don't know much about him. I just don't know what to do.
Has anyone else experienced this, or have any advice? Thanks