My BD has a history of cheating on me and my bestfriend slept with one of my ex boyfriends( when i was dating him) well like 2 months ago they were working cab together and they kept calling me making jokes about them having sex....not funny for me. well it doesnt help that he is ALWAYS flirting with her. when i confront him hes denies it. i have a really really strong feeling they did stuff...i dont know what to do. neither of them will admit it. when i asked my other bestfriend if she knew anything she said no but i have a feeling she does. what do i do??? i need to know.
In my opinion, she does not sound like best friend material. I don't know if you are with BD or not, but either way, what they are doing is disrespectiful towards you.
I think you need to talk to them, maybe at different times and tell them not to act like that in front of you.
If you are with BD, he needs to learn to respect you. He is with YOU, not with your best friend.
If you aren't with him, maybe they can take their flirting elsewhere when you aren't around. If that is the case, it would have been nice had she asked you how you would feel if she got together with your BD.
If you are still with BD and he is acting like this, maybe you should re evaluate your relationship. What he is doing is totally not respectful, and he needs to know this.
wow, yeah i think i would look for a new best friend. that doesnt sound like someone that i wouldnt be able to consider a best friend, and i think that you need to talk 2 ur bd and tell him that you dont appriciate those kind of things, set some rules, and if he doesnt like it, i'd think twice about certain things. you don't need to put up with things like that in a relationship.
if you and bd aren't together maybe you should ask him to not talk to you things unrelated to your daughter. And make an effort to not hang around them, i would cut this girl out of your life, she is disrepectful and doesn't deserve your friendship. If you and bd are together, i would say break up with him, what he is doing is rude and unexceptable. They are basicly rubbing your face in it and that needs to stop.
A similar thing happened to me...my best friend at the time started flirting with my boyfriend, taking his side when we were fighting, asking him to spend the night, and one night when she was drunk she pretended to be really upset so he would comfort her, and was haging all over him, then blurted out to me "I give up, he's yours". Then still after all the hell that night caused, she would text message him and talk to him on msn behind my back. She pretended to still be my friend, but would bad mouth me to him constantly. Anyways, point is, I cut this chick outta my life, and my life has been better for it. Any girl who steps on your ground, whether you are together or he is your ex, but especially when you are having his baby has no right to call herself your friend. And as for him, well things get more difficult to figure out there, and should do what you feel is right, but definetly tell him how hurtful it is for you to hear those things whether he is "joking" or not. Stay strong :wink: