So as I've said in past posts I was Close to my older brother who recently passed away.
I Protected him from girls I knew would hurt him for so long, he was shy and not confident he believed that girls were above him so I always tried to protect him from a broken heart. So when he met Danielle through a friend I was suspicious but I just kind of watched from a distance to make sure everything was ok and it seemed great she was amazing to him but sometimes she was just unreachable, it seemed weird. I thought she was cheating on him but at 15 she was in school! Now he was 19 and she had said she was 18 so no one thought anything of it. I don't have a problem with age differences in relationships. Who am I to judge anyone on their age? But we found out she was 15 and she'd been lying for 5 months. He loved her so he moved past that. about 3 months after that she broke up with him and shortly after that claimed he had hit her and all kinds of things like that. and Honestly I can guarantee that he would NEVER do that EVER he's just not that type of person. So after talking to the police and her having no witnesses and the police questioning her story she admitted it wasn't true. It absolutely broke his heart to have trusted and loved her so much and then her do that to him. I was completely enraged by her actions and vowed never to speak to her again because if I did all tihs anger would come out and I'm aggressive and I do have anger problems sometimes so I just decided staying away would be best.
Now 2 years later Danielle is 17 and she phoned and wanted to wish me happy birthday and she wants to be friends, I still hold a Huge Grudge against her for all the shit she pulled, because at that point he was sick with leukemia and she was what kept him going and then she does that? some days I thought he was going to give up but he never did he fought until the last moment. But do I really wanna be friends with her? I don't know if I could ever trust her. But I don't want to hold something she did 2 years ago against her maybe she's changed?
What do you ladies think?