I'll try to explain this right.
My BD and I are not together but the children are his. My new SO that I have been dating for about a year and a half and I are starting to get serious and look to the future.
The thing is, I am done having babies. When we first met, he didn't want any kids and wasn't sure if he even wanted step kids. He obviously cahnged his mind about my little ones and then, wham, out of nowhere decides he wants a child in the future between us. PROBLEM.
I really don't want to go through another pregnancy, let alone birth, nurse and mama another infant/toddler. He feels it's something he needs and wants for the two of us. I just feel at a loss. I'm a bit angry he changed his mind but of course, he has every right and I'm worried about what this means for our relationship. Anyone else dealt with this?