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For some reason.. All I've been thinking about lately is having a baby boy. Im only 17 and already have one so not anytime soon but i cant stop thinking about it. I cant think of One boy name that I like. NOT ONE! I really want to have a boy some day but i dont want a name that is overused. So i was wondering if you girls could help me think of some cool boy names. and tell me why i cant stop thinking about this. ? because i think about it all day long everyday but know i cant have one anytime soon.. Thanks :D

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I think about it too. I can't anytime soon either. I don't think my baby cravings will be complete until I feel I have enough kids. Only, I have a boy, so I'm always thinking about girl names. When I'm out buying something for my boy, and I see cute girly clothes and stuff I'm always "oohing" about it. My boy's name is Sebastian. It's not a wierd name or anything, but it's definately not the most popular. His middle name is Nemanja ( sounds like nemanya). So thats definately a different one. Other boy names we were considering were Oliver, Dexter, Donivan, Malcom. I don't think any of those are really overused.

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I totally want another baby SOOOO bad right now. Its all I think about sometimes...*gotta get that IUD in FAST*

I cant decide if I want a girl or not, because I LOVE having a boy. I just want more. I want to be pregnant again, I want to give birth again....

I think what you are feeling is normal!!! I wouldnt be to worried about it!

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..sounds like you've got a case of "Baby Lust".. While my son is only 11 weeks old, I already want another baby very much (but I'd like a girl) :shock: I think the feelings your experiencing are pretty common.

As far as names go.. I found finding boys names to be way more challenging than girls.. Some boys names I liked that are different, but not to out there are:

Mason
Malachi
Laramie
Killian
Kieran
Owen
Caleb
Keller
Orion

..to name but a few..

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I had baby lust until the time when Eric was around 1. Now I am like, I never want another baby! lol. It comes and goes. Sometimes I will think that I really want another baby, but then reality hits me. Maybe when I am done with school I will have another one.

Anyway, some boys names that I was thinking about when I was pregnant with Eric:
Jason
Xavier or Zavier
Connor
Alexander and call him Xander for short
Dylan

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I never had baby lust, but I do debate in my mind whether I'd have anohter child... obviously, I do need a partner to have one! And I would NEVER have another child with BD. I used to always think I wanted kids 2 years apart, but Lyric is 4.5 years old and I totally can't picture myself having another child at this moment... maybe when she's in school. And if I do have another child - I want one before I am 30.

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sawyer is the only boy name in my book right now

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I so have baby lust! I take my bc pill b/c I don't want to get pregnant right now, but every time my period comes I get depressed b/c I'm not pregnant. Messed up I know, but I just wish I would accidentally get pregnant. My little girl is 3 and goes to school 4 days/week for half a day. I have to wait a few more years before she's in school full time, and that would be the ideal time to have another child, but I so want to be pregnant again! I miss it.

I would love to have another little girl. If I had a boy and he was anything like my bf's son I would be pulling my hair out. In case I did ever have a boy, these are the names I like:

Alexander (alec)
Lucas
Chase
Julian
Xavier

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freeangel wrote:
I so have baby lust! ....... every time my period comes I get depressed b/c I'm not pregnant.

I feel exactly the same way.

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girl baby lust all the way

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Hehe my baby lust never seems to take a break! I thought it would after I had Jane, but no! I want more babies! I think Ian may have something similar "baby brother lust" :shock: he keeps asking me when I'm going to have a little boy that can play with him and his cousin, Gabriel! :)

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Oh yeah, boy names:

Talmadge
Owen
Tiernan
Vincent
Joaquin
Boru
Quinn
Amadou

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nolan or hayden were the names I wanted if I had a boy

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One boy name that I lovvvvvvvved but couldn't use because my sister used it first :

Carter

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Genbean: My new nephew's middle name is boru.

I liked-
Oden
Aiden
Anoki
Malacoda
Malakai
Nikolai

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freeangel wrote:
I so have baby lust! I take my bc pill b/c I don't want to get pregnant right now, but every time my period comes I get depressed b/c I'm not pregnant. Messed up I know, but I just wish I would accidentally get pregnant.

Each time I get my period I feel relieved and disappointed at the same time. :?

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Gah - I love love love the name Quinn for a boy.

I also adore Avery - but I love it for both genders! hahaha, well, there's an easy time picking out a name when the time comes. No matter if it's a boy or a girl, it's Avery! :lol:

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Hey.. Im new to all of this but i find this topic really interesting. I had my son when i was 15 years old and i was stuck for names for weeks as i didnt find out what i was having. I dream about having a girl everyday but no its not the write time as im now only going to turn 18 and have just started my career. I named my son Ashton which isnt very common in Australia. My partner and i have now agreed for our next son either Kobi-Jai, Zane, or Cooper. I hope these replys are helping you out.

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freeangel wrote:
every time my period comes I get depressed b/c I'm not pregnant. Messed up I know, but I just wish I would accidentally get pregnant.

oh my god....me too! it's like ok, I kw it'd be bad right now but...they're just so darned cute! And it's not just the "cute" thing, either, I can't put my finger on it... :?

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I want another bad too. Of course I want a girl and would name her Nevaeh Lynn.

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SativaStarr wrote:
As far as names go.. I found finding boys names to be way more challenging than girls.. Some boys names I liked that are different, but not to out there are:

Mason
Malachi
Laramie
Killian
Kieran
Owen
Caleb
Keller
Orion

..to name but a few..

I've got a Malachy (but it's an Irish name, so it's Mal-a-key, not Mal-a-kye. ) No one pronounces it right, but whatever. My other choice was Seamus and I KNOW that would never have been right.

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I want another baby!! like last week I went to he mall and I kept seeing so many pregnant girls..I'm like "is this a sign or something?" lol...

but no I'm not ttc anytime soon my baby is only 6 months and I live with my parents , hubby and baby and it's a really tight space ...Even though I want one so badly I'm going to wait until I start my career and I'm better financially...maybe two years from now :shock: ...I don't know ...we'l see what happens..

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You think you guys are weird? I'm still pregnant with #2 and I already have baby lust again...lol. I plan on TTC once tthis baby turns 2. Of course I would have to find someone to concieve with...lol. But ya.

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meghan wrote:
SativaStarr wrote:
As far as names go.. I found finding boys names to be way more challenging than girls.. Some boys names I liked that are different, but not to out there are:

Mason
Malachi
Laramie
Killian
Kieran
Owen
Caleb
Keller
Orion

..to name but a few..

I've got a Malachy (but it's an Irish name, so it's Mal-a-key, not Mal-a-kye. ) No one pronounces it right, but whatever. My other choice was Seamus and I KNOW that would never have been right.

I've got a Kieran!

It made me happy to see it on your list!

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I have baby lust big time....

I want to have that baby making sex again, and be pregnant again, give birth again, and rediscover everything baby all over again.
I'd like to give BD a boy, but I really like having our girl!!!!!
And we have lots of girl stuff!!!!!!!!!!!

But we can't have another one right now. I don't think it would be fair to our daughter who is only 8 months old, to start planning for another one. I want to get her off to a good start. And I want to have lots of little kid years in our home so I think we will wait until she is 3 or 4.

Mind you, we aren't exactly practicing safe sex.... pulling out. So you never know. But honestly if it happened right now I think I would be quite upset, at least for awhile. Because I'd feel guilty about A being so young, and needing me so much.