hey ladies, I'm not exactly sure where to put this post. I was raped by an exboyfriend when i was 15. It was so bad i felt like I left my body and was watching it happen to someone else.It's still an issue for me but not major. I told my husband about it. The last couple times we have had sex I have had a flashback to that day. Last night i dreamt, but wasn't deeply sleeping and relived it. i woke up screaming and flailing. My husband keeps asking what the matter is. I don't know if i should tellhim. He seemed really upset when I told him the first time. I dont want him to think when we have sex i'm thinking of my ex boyfriend. I can't talk to anyone about it. In the dream it was like I was there all over again. I don't understand why this has to keep jutting into my life. I don't want my husband to think that he reminds me of this incident, but i don't want to lie to him either. what should I do?