Ok well my mothers boyfriend is a controling jerk to say the least. I do not like him at all, not one little bit. For some reason my mom still worships the ground he walks on, forgetting and giving up everything else to meet his standards.
The fight started because she wanted to talk to me about how i make him feel like he isnt wanted here. I told her how i felt about the whole situation with him and she just went off...she got into how i can never be happy and how our time with her is when her boyfriend is at work and just how rude and inconsiterate i am for treating him like i do, which i dont understand because me and him havent said one word to eachother for atleast a month. The whole time this is going on shes just screaming at me, for a little bit she was only like 3 inches from my face. Its like everytime i said something and she realized i was right she just yelled louder. Even after everything stopped she would still just make little comments like "im leaving now sabrena to take him to the appartment SO YOU CAN BE HAPPY!" . she didnt seem to care at all that she was making me feel like the scum of the earth. the whole time this was going on i was just balling, crying so hard i could hardly breath just because i hate the fact that my mother is choosing this jerk over her children.
Im sorry, im just rambling now, i just feel like i can talk to you guys. I dont know why this effected me so bad, i feel kinda dumb for making such a big deal about this but it really hurt me.
can you guys tell what you think? like am i over reacting or what? help please :(
PS she even told me she the only thing that will make me happy is if she goes and hides in a dark corner with a shot gun.....aaah! she hates me!
I sent you a pm...It really sounds like you guys need some time apart.
I know how you feel sort of. My situation is diffrent. Its my SIL and MIL. They make me feel bad because i dont like my SIL husband Ive just givin up on trying to make them understand and let them be angry at me.
You and your mom probley just need time away from each other to figure things out for yourself individualy. Try and find common ground after a while and see if you cant calmly talk through things and find a solution both of you can agree to.