well i have a question to ask you ladies who had a babyshower thrown for you by your relatives. Well my mother and my boyfriends mother are throwing me a babyshower. the thing is that i dont really know or get along with my boyfriends family... ( Iam younger than him and have peircing and short funky hair and they are a strict potuguese family) Its supposed to be a suprise and im not supposed to know but my sister is a rat. lol but its bad enough that my parents are divorced and dont get along and neither do the people in my family( a whole lotta bullshit) but i also dont get along with his family. The only reason they are coming is too suport my boyfriend but he probably wont even be there (and if he is hes probably off with the guys) So im basically going to have to be the mediator between my parents and their familes and also dealing with the rude little remarks from my boyfriends family. the shtty thing is thati have a really good relashionship with my family and they all get aong with me they just dont get along with eachother and i dont even want this babyshower if im going to be breaking up fights all night. i guess what im wondering is what i should do.. should i call it off and hurt my familys feelings and make my boyfriends family think im even more of a bitch or just sit there and take it because its going to be at my apartment so i cant leave even if i want to ... any advice would be great.. sorry its so long im just extremely frustrated and dreading sept 23 so much.