Well this is going to be kind of long. I am sixteen years old, and two months pregnant. When I found out I was three weeks pregnant. I came to a conclusion that I got pregnant on the day me and my ex got into a fight and broke up. When I told my ex I was pregnant, his repsonse was w/e we will deal with it later, im going to bed, and hung up the phone. Since then things have not changed, except for his new gf. He puts her before anything. He goes to her dr. appts, befor he will go to mine. Shes not pregnant, jus general check ups. He tries to tell me that he is going to get full custody so him and her can raise it together. She is a virgin so he runs to me still wanting sex, and I refuse, and then he comes back saying I love you, I jus dont want to hurt her, and I am just confused. I love my ex to death. I was with him for a year. We broke up on our one year. I dont know what to do. I am young, but I know I will be able to make it on my own. I graduate in two months, yeah I know weird cuz im 16, but I have put alot of effort into school so I can graduate before the baby is born. Anyone have any advice for me?
I think it is really smart for you to turn him away when he comes to you for sex. I know the feeling of missing and loving someone and wanting to give in but knowing that in the long run, you'd better not. Don't worry about the custody bit. It's almost impossible for a bd who has played no role in caring for a child to get full custody. Congratulations on graduating early. How is the pregnancy going?