I was just wondering what it is in a man/woman that attracts you sexually to him/her?
I am so hot for guys that are:
Dark haired
Dark eyed
Tall & broad(but not too pumped up)
Confident
Sensitive
Ambitious
If I meet a guy who is all of those things and knows how to treat a girl, I'm done in!
Give me one guy who knows his own heart and what he wants and to him I shall belong forever!
i like "bad" boys. i know that sounds so cliche but really it is a big problem. i need to grow outta that but i can't seem to!
I go for personalities mostly... you know i like a guy who i can have a good conversation with looks matter a little too...
For me its Shaved Heads, Tattoos, and Blue Eyes.. (lookswise)
Other stuff...he has to be VERY mellow and laid back, kinda like "who gives a fuck" type of attitude.......and he has to be able to smile at me with his eyes!
I also like broad shoulders and a strong jaw.
I like guys with a sense of humor. If they're romantic, like to read, and have generally the same interests as me, I usually wind up trying to get to know them better. They have to respect me, not be lazy, and be very considerate of others.
Physically, I like men with a hairy chest, black hair, and light colored eyes.
My *ideal* guy, is dark haired, brown eyes, 6 foot tall, skinny but not lanky (skinny but muscular type).... hmmm sounds like my hott friend Oliver... Strangely enough Oliver is the only guy Ive ever dated, that matches what Id like about a guy look wise... I tend to go for Bad Boys... (all my eXs) but i usually end up with an okay looking guywho is a total a$$hole....hmmmmmmm :?:
I like guys who are the badboy type and cowboys. Really tall with blue or green eyes.
I really need to get out of the badboy and cowboy phase. My ex was that type and I don't want to repeat that cycle.
Bad Boys were the type I dug.
I don't have a specific rundown of exact features, but generally, I was majorly attracted to long haired boys, who were usually tall and thin. Eyes are a big thing for me.
The last boy I was majorly attracted to, was about twice my size, eek, had a shaved head and a lot of tattoo's, and was real, um, rough snd tough, like people got scared when we went out :P Bad ass mo fo.
But you know, this is troublesome. I would like to have liked a nice normal guy at some point, but it was just impossible. I have gone out of my way to talk to nice sweet hott boys, and um, they didnt do anything for me. I just loved the danger and the rush I got with bad boys. heh, sounds so silly.
and let's just say I have far better taste in women then I do in boys. Like whoa ;)
I'm 100% with you on all that. I great version (although maybe a little short) would be Antonio Banderas. He's the sexiest man ever.
But another thing that is REALLY important to me is the ability to maintain an indepth philosophical conversation and the ability to see things from abstract angles.
I kind of wonder if there is actually one of those out there for me. Humph....
i tend to go for the losers (hell i know most of you are with me on that one lol)...
As for what I am attracted too past that... physically i like em built... i was some muscles a six pack the whole deal... hmmmm and they have to have nice eyes... past that most likely they are abusive with no ambition or job but... If I could choose and make a wise decision I would want a family type guy... with ambition and a good listener...
a pulse...
I am attracted by tall guys with dark hair and nice teeth, but for some reason I always date short guys with dark hair & nice teeth ummmm... LOL. I like my guys stocky kinda like the Vin Diesel look!
I too like the bad boys. I constantly find myself being attracted to the irresponsible, druggie, wild boys who don't care about anything. Bleh. Lookswise, I tend to be attracted to tall, skinny white boys. I love short hair, a kind of shaved look, with a nice smile. The one thing that always wins me over though is if he can make me laugh. Humor is so sexy. I couldn't be intimate with someone I couldn't laugh with.
the eyes, the smile, the sense of humor.
of course once i get ast that if he's gonna last he has to be able to sit for hours and talk about anything and everything under the sun.
Oh yeah, and if he'll paint my toenails!
I've said it before and I'll say it again, a man that can do calculous lights my fire. Lol. Daniel is a physics major at the Colorado School for Mining and Engineering- very wooo wooo. That smart, brooding, distracted kind of guy is just my speed... they have to- absolutely have to, be taller than me though.
And I like girly girls... I know it's bad, but I like long hair, and skirts... lol...
Androgyny. Boys who look like girls and girls who look like boys and just people whose pants I have to be into before I know if they're biologically male or female. Meow. Also, I'm big into geekiness. Run Linux - or, better yet, freeBSD - play D&D, take me to a con, and I'm yours. Double meow. The girl I'm into at the moment (I have a male partner as well, but we're dipping our toes into polyamoury) does drag and is a microbiologist. The very though just makes me swoon. I realize I'm not in the norm, but that's OK, I never have been. ;)
Oh, and Josh Groban. The hair, the eyes, the lips, the voice, the innocence. :oops: That one makes me feel kinda pervy on some level.
Hey Juke, my husband has been at his friends playing WarHammer for like, 5 hours now. Plus, he works in IT, is 6'4, thin, and among his 25 tatoos are the symbol from WarHammer on the back of his head(it's HUGE), the symbol of the Rebel Alliance from Star Wars on his neck, and various other comic book, band, and role playing tatoos.
Apparently I like sexy geeks.
Um, and big breasted women. But shh don't tell J, he get's paranoid....
Someone who can dress "well" IMO. Blue eyes!!! The way they carry themselves as a person.