My mom is the type of grandmother that's always itching to take the baby...she'll use every excuse in the book to play with Ayana..."i'll burp the baby", "i'll hold her so you can eat"...always trying to steal my bebe away!
Anyways, she was dying her hair one day (around the time Ayana was 1 month) and i went to take a shower...i told her specifically "don't go near Ayana cuz you have dye in your hair" and i gave baby to my dad. next thing you know, i come out of the shower and hear my mom playing with the baby! I could smell the fumes from upstairs and when I went down she was like face to face with Ayana, hair dye all up in her head. I was so pissed off, and my mom just kept saying "it's ok, it's no big deal". Her justification is that i painted my room while i was pregnant so it's ok for her to be around the baby with hair dye. Then a few weeks ago, i was playing with Ayana and my mom came in the room ready to snatch her away and again, her head was full of dye! I started yelling at her so she finally back away...so annoying!!
Anyways, I know I don't want my little one inhaling all those fumes, but what do you guys think about being around baby with hair dye? Am I overreacting?