I've been getting ontime cs payments of fifty bucks for the last three months. And I still haven't gotten anything for november, which tells me one thing. He didn't make it past his 90 days. Again. I'm willing to bet it's because he's STILL, at 31 years old, doing nothing with his life but fucking around. Popping and selling pills and letting myself and all the other mamas raise his kids for him. Jesus, the least he could do is learn how to wrap that shit up instead of continuing to be a lying worthless dickhead. And, because he's a man and people have a tendency to blindly side with them, telling everyone what an evil [insert antiwoman phrase] I am because I don't *let* him see his son, even though he's never fucking tried to.
I hate him. I hate him and I wish he'd die. At least social security arrives with regularity and I could tell my son he had a daddy who loved him.
im right here with you. but sort of its the states fault for me.
i filed a fuken year ago and STILL no fuken money for CS. so the other day i get a call from social services saying that they will be going to his job in my state to serve him the court papers and our court date is January 22nd.
WELLLLLL my sons father called me 2 days ago to inform me hes been laid fuken OFF!!! he lives in MA and CT wont serve him in MA so now I HAVE LONGER TO WAIT! i thought things were going to get on track but NO! i hate CT social services and my BD!! ugh!
aw sorry to hear that u girls are going thru this. Yes, help would be VERY HELPFUL and you shouldnt even had to go thru court for the guy to do for his child but, just think like this...you been doing it this long and im sure even though it might be hard you are doing the best possible and in the end everything will catch up with the lame dead beats. i know here in PA once they are on child support and if they miss 4 payments u can request a hearing and at the hearing they will ask him why he isnt paying and give him 60 or 90 days (not sure which 1) to show back up to court with the money he owes and if he doesnt show they get him in contempt of court and if he doesnt have the money off to the work-release center he goes. and if u get cash from public assistance they make u take the dad to court and they can press the issue for payment faster than u can. the bad thing about that is that you dont get the money the state gets it.