My name is chassity,
Im 19 and on my 2nd child. i had my first child at 15yrs and now im scared to death at how every thing is going to turn out when i have this 2nd child. My babies father is married and not really a big support in my corner right now, even tho he is there i still feel i am going to have to do this alone. I know i will have to do it alone,a newborn plus a four yr old. ive always been a patient person but now i feel like im losing my mind because of not hav :P ing the right support is anyone Kinda in my situation. thanks Bye...
Single teen mom with more than 2 kids
You are here
Mon, 2006-11-13 15:49
#1
Single teen mom with more than 2 kids
well, you do have 3 options. adoption, abortion and having the baby alone.
if you decide to have the baby, which it sounds like you have. it is possible to do it alone. lots of us here are single mamas, myself included (although i only have one at the moment).
how far along is the pregnancy?
I'm not in that situation anymore, but I was. I had my daughterat 19 when my son was 2 and a half. If you decide to continue the pregnancy, you can do it. Do you have any friends/family members that can offer you support when the baby's born?
My daughter was born in the middle of the night,and by the time my son woke up in the morning, we were both back home. My mom was able to be around the first 2 or 3 days to help take care of S and my apartment, so I could concentrate on the new baby and getting my rest. That made it so much easier for me to get used to having the two kids on my own.
Whatever you decide, good luck.
good luck!! i dont know what to tell you.
i had both of my kids at fifteen. i am nineteen now with two four year olds. i know how much of a struggle two kids can be at any age.
i hope you make the best decision for you