My moms sister and i have never gotten along. And because she was family i was forced to invite her to my baby shower this past weekend. Well none of us expected her to actually show up. When she does get her she is cold to me and acts like nothing has happened with all my mom and grandma. Of course she was rude without it being so obvious that i could say something about it. All of this with BD's mother and sister there. It was the first time his family and mine had been together. Then when we took a break to eat and she corners me and complains because she had to hear from my grandmother that i was pregnant. I didnt tell her because with everything else i couldnt handle her gloating and saying i was just like her. To top it all off she sat by me which made it to where my other aunt who has a big problem with her wouldnt talk to me. I love my other aunt and she and i get along great. Durning the baby shower i was forced to sit on the couch and i couldnt get away from her because everytime i got up i was yelled at by my mom or grandma. Sorry this is all pissing me off. I dont need this right now. Ive got another 6 weeks and im on slight bed rest because i keep having false contractions.
I'm sorry your family is treating you like that. I hope things get better for you.
Also, have you tried talking to your mother and your grandmother about their behavior at the baby shower? Maybe if they know that their behavior upset you, then they'll refrain from behaving like that in the future?
oh gosh... that is so gonna be me in january for my babyshower....my moms throwing out all these names of ppl she wants me to invite and im like....i dont like this person never have...and they DO NOT like me..why even waste an invitation??..guh -_-
but then again at the same time for bd's family..i dont care for his aunt penny too much...and i dont think she likes me either...im inviting her because i dont want to be rude and cause a riff in the family..this early atleast -_-