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MaLiKsMommi
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friend who abononded me just called wants to get together

I posted here a month ago that my friend lied and left me for her boyfreind. She called my cell phone tonight and i didn't hear it she left a message and said like their was nothing wromg hey girl do you want to get together for lunch call my cell because I can;t have calls after 11pm. What should I do I'm still really pissed that she ignorded me and it took her a month to call me to make plans. Should I go out with her or not call her back. She wnats me to call her back tomorrow. What should I do?

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friend who abononded me just called wants to get together

I definetly think you should call her back and ask her why she wants to get together, since she was so quick to ditch you for her boyfriend. Maybe they broke up and that is why she is trying to call you again...and just let her know that you dont need a friend like that. Just my opinion. :)

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friend who abononded me just called wants to get together

I returned her phone call on her cell just like she told me to and she hasen't called me back. I'm really angery and hurt at her. If she dosen't call me back tonight which I don't think she will its 11:30pm here I'm going to call her tomorrow and have a talk with her telling her how I feel about the way shes been treating me. thanks

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friend who abononded me just called wants to get together

Im glad your being strong and Im sorry you ahev to deal with crap like that!! Let us know what happens! Good luck!!

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friend who abononded me just called wants to get together

I called her tonight and she was all happy. I asked her if she got my message and she said my cell phones been acting crazy. I just got your message at 10AM. I'm thinking well if you got the message this morning why didn't you call me BACK!!! It takes 2 minutes to call someone back. Then I asked her how come you said you would call me last month the first week in June and you never did. Her response oh I busy with work and school. WTF you have time to call your boyfriend every day but don't have to call me once in that week. So she said do you want to go out for lunch Friday. I said I will call you on Friday morning to arage plans. I'm, really hurt and mad that she did this and I'm going to have a long talk with her about how she is treating me. thanks for the support and ideas welcome about how to deal with her should I keep up the friendship? She didn't breakup with the boyfriend like I though.