ppl drive me crazy
when i moved into my last apartment, there was a girl there with 2 kids...who quickly became my daughters best freinds, and we got together every single day for 1.5 years. i was the babysitter/friend/pharmacy... everything, completely used...looking back. i never asked her (the mom) for anything... although we were good friends, we walked for groceries together and everything...
well..... we are both on welfare... and i just got subsadised housing, and had to move about a 20 minute drive away (neither of us have cars) well i moved into a really nice place...and SHE'S MAD!?!?!?! WHATEVER SISTAH FRIEND.
so i invited her and her girls over...and she wouldn't come! it took her a WHOLE month to bring her girls over to see my house and let her kids see their best friend. i was soooo annoyed!
wow, what priviledged you have to be able to get into subsidized housing. There are so many girls on here who are having a really rough time getting in. Most are on really long waiting lists.
I can see why your friend would be upset. It can be quite hard to see something good happen to someone else, when it's something you desperately want and feel you deserve aswell. It probebly took that entire month for her to get over it, and get enough nerve to come and see the place. And it may have stung for her too.
Youd probebly be best to just forgive her if you want to continue the friendship. It sounds like its harder for her to set her own feelings aside and just be happy for you.
i hope you two can patch things up :)
i think you need to step into your friends shoes for a minute. you need to take the time to consider her feelings first. Friends do not judge each other...things in life change. IMO you are sounding quite selfish. considering you think you were
friends help each other out. thats what friends are there for...and do not use things such as that against them.
give her time, she'll come around.