My bf's penis is always dried out, and usually it's peeling/flaky. It kinda grosses me out, but I know he can't help it. So I suggested that he quit using soap on it altogether, and putting lotion on it. Well the past 2 days (including today) he's had the lotion, but I don't see any real difference. Will the lotion help, or is it just a waste of time? Anyone know of anything that will work if the lotion won't, cuz I kinda want his penis to look nice. :oops:
haha.
i wouldnt suggest not washing his penis if you want it to look nice, smell nice or taste nice though. haha ( not they they really do IMO) but ANYWAYS... maybe switchin soaps to one for sensitive skin. maybe he should get it looked at. it might be a larger issue.
I didn't mean don't wash it period, just not using soap. Just plain water. Thats what I use on my vulva and face (not necessairly in that order, just whatever), and I have no issues with not being clean. Americans for the most part overuse soap, and over bathe and shower.
He dosen't want to ask his dermatologist about it (she's hot so I can kinda see where the embarrasment might come in there. lol)
I would can the soap for awhile, or try something for sensitive. My fiance uses Dove, as do I, and we both have sensitive skin!
Also make sure it's rinsed off REALLY well.
And now, not to totally pry, but do you have a lot of sex... of all shapes and forms....? I feel like an ass....... :oops:
But I know, when we have sex, multiple times a day, within about 4 days.... my fiances penis is looking dry, and cracked... it doesn't peel, but it looks overused.
Could he be having an allergic reaction to laundry soap, lubricants, anything like that?
We don't have sex THAT often. Usually only 2-3 times a week, sometimes less. My sex drive has been really low latley, I'm not sure why. I don't think it's product related tho.....
Thanks.... :oops: LOL!!!!!!
I am out of ideas then!!!!!!!!
Sorry!
that made me actually LOL. :D
My SO has had this. With us its from him getting head, or us having sex, then him trowing his boxers back on and going to bed lol.
Since then we've made a point of making sure he's clean and *dry* b4 sleeping.
I get rashes and dry skin from not drying my hands with a towel properly, maybe its the same sort of thing?
Dammnit. You beat me to it, lmfao. :lol:
me too. My landlord lives downstairs and he knocked on my door to make sure i was OK :lol:
This is on topic, but off topic.
I was just wondering how big your partner or partners generally are? I mean i hear tales of 9 in guys and i know for a fact that that's really uncommon. The average is actually like 5 or 5.5 My guy is around 7 in and sometimes he hits my cervix and that doesn't exactly feel the greatest. I mean i have only even seen one penis and his curves towards him in an upward like motion, sort of like a C, but a subtler one. Idk...I guess that i'm just curious about other penises because i've only seen one and i don't have one myself lol. Excuse my juvenile curiosity :P
I would recommend backing way off the soap and using a non-greasy lotion for sensitive skin.
My ex-husband was like 8.5in!! He was huge, and we had to buy the trojan magnum condoms, ect lol. My boyfriend is like 6.5in, and sex is SOO much better, it almost always hurt with my ex. I think like 5-6.5 is a normal range. Both my bf and my ex have had penises that curve towards them like ) only not that big of an arc.
LOL i have no idea how big BD is but we have to use Magnum XL and I am still (after having a baby) almost always sore when we have sex. But it feels good at the moment LOL. LOL. LOL.
Glad to hear I'm not the only one out there buying Magnums.... looking enviously at all the ticklers, and flavours, and colours... you name it.
Magnum has "warming" now though... WOO HOO!
Also glad to hear I'm not the only one who's sore, I know when we're having sex, that I will pay dearly later!!!
And then there is the cervix tap..... Y-OUCH!
wait what? sex hurts because my boyfriend has a large..thing? because he does..
It always hurts from behind. I can only pretend to like it for like a minute until I push him off of me...
i am right there with ya. im like yea good okay flip.
LOL yabinti i know what you mean. It sucks there is nothing fun. :( I look everytime I go somewhere hoping there will be some new kind, but no such luck. And yea i know what you mean with the cervix tap OMG everytime he does it im like ooouuuucccchhhhh!!!!! But i love him so much and i love the sex LOL. So i guess i cant complain...right?
You absolutely can complain! There are ways to make sex feel good even with a large penis, you've just got to try different ways and encourage the guy to use some control.
ugh. The cerbix tap is TERRIBLE. i don't mind a little bit, but when my cervix is low down right before my period we can't use certian positions cuae it hurts WAAAY to much.
and of course he takes a huge amount of pride in his size and thinks that bigger is always better :roll:
Yea, that's probably why it hurts. You should try to use positions where you can control how much of his penis goes into you and how hard the thrust is...it won't hurt as much.
Am I the only one who loves my cervix getting pounded? It really drives me wild...and yes it does hurt....but in a good way. :D
Most of my bf's have been right around the 5-6" size. I did have sex with one guy that was about 9" and had a wide girth as well...holy crap I couldn't sit the next day!
God, i can't believe I've gone all this time thinking I'm the only one with the cervix issue!
It is so bad when I'm pregnant, too. We are stuck in missionary forever!
And that is really difficult because pretty soon it will be almost impossible for him to climb this mountain, ha ha ;)
OMG misfit it was the worst when i was pregnant. It happened all the time. Now its not really THAT bad. I didnt really know that that was why it hurt though. I just kinda thought that that was a normal thing?
When I was to the end of my pregnancy, spooning was all I could do... I find if I can close my legs, I can control how far he can go in.... Same with if I lay on my tummy... That's about my favourite... Good G-spot, and if you ley, legs closed, his legs on the outside.... and have him wiggle as far onto your bum as he can. You control the depth, and he's still doing all the work... :wink:
Rarely do I get a cervix tap that way.