This is ridiculous. We know who you are and your bullshit is not welcome here. We don't have time to run around trying to keep track of your little games. You will be banned from all of your usernames until you can grow up and stop messing with our safe space. There are plenty of other mama websites out there for you. Go find one.
okay.. sorry i was trying to get help for my situation. but didnt want to be known who i am . SHIT ... I was told by MOD SQUAD to go under an anonymous mama and that is what i did "If you have sensitive information that you need to post, you may do so under the anonymous mama screen name on the public boards. "
I did what she said!!!! why am i getting shit for something that the MOD SQUAD said to do !???!?!?!?
Eww, I can't even believe you're trying to make such a bullshit arguement. FYI you don't just go make a screen name that says "anonymous" in it. It's a special screen name we give people access to when they need to use it. (just in case anyone else was confused about that).
how am i suppose to know that?
all she said was to post it with that screen name ..
I dont think that me < alexzander'smom should be banned..
I had no clue that it was a special name ..
I just wanted help with the siing cuz i need to know how to self fix a wound to the bone .. and wanted to see if i was alone in this or not..
I thought this was a safe place where i could talk about it . but i cant since all of mine has been banned.. like this will be ..
but i dont think i should be banned. I wasnt even given . I just didnt want others to know it was me right away, i didnt want to be outcasted.. I had no clue about the anonymous mama thing . so i thought i did what i was suppse to . cuz no one ever mentioned a password or how to log into it . so if someone could please unban AlexZander'smom i would apprecaite it . I cant even post a reply to inbox messages i didnt get to read from varies mods. and i cant comment on what your posting to me like this post.. etc
thanks and sorry ..
i thought that is what mod squad meant .. didnt mean to offend anyone.. just want help from others like me
holy fuck you guys, yeah AM questioned your modding but what the hell are you doing to her? You out her because she did it WRONG after she posted highly sensitive information?! I didn't need to know it was AM, because self injury is a really fucking deep topic, not one that people want exposed for them, that shit isn't yours to expose, who the hell cares if she did it WRONG.
I'm seriously doubting your ability to mod now too, that shit is just wrong whether you like the girl or not and I think she needs a mass apology from the mods here, because i've watched this blow up out of defensiveness and whether or not she said something you like or not does not mean you get to do this to her.
What the hell...?
No, you will not be unbanned.
Just because this is a safe space doesn't mean it's a safe space for everyone who chooses to come. Once you start compromising the safe space for everyone else then you have no reason to be here and we have no obligation to try and make you feel welcome.
and I know you're not THAT clueless.
We're all done having this arguement. You need to leave.
And considering the majority of yall are nowhere NEAR 17 like she is, consider that you're alienating someone this site is MEANT FOR and whether or not you're following the older mama guidelines either.
because she, oh no, deleted a picture like we've all had the option to forever, after a mod so nicely and snarkily MADE FUN OF HER for it. If anything I'd say the mod compromised safeness because they made fun of her for a thread in a locked space, out in a public space.
i saw one of your posts about SI. i am just wanted to let you know that you can pm me if you want to talk. i would have pm'ed you this, but i wasnt quite sure which name to do it under, so i'll leave it up to you. hope things get better for you. and good luck with everything.
And Britt how about you stop being a snark to her? You've been nothing but rude and it's pissing me off. She's not THAT clueless? So she made a mistake, oh that makes her a dumbass, lets all sit and laugh at her after we ban her for no reason. right.
Most of hte girls on this site are newer and don't know the rules or the methods around things, are they all just stupid too?
She started trolling the fucking boards with 2 other usernames before her first one was even banned! And this was AFTER another mod explained to her about the anonymousmama thing and the fact that she could PM us if she needed to use it. So yeah, maybe her first anonmama username was legit and that was totally fine, but the fact that she made another one even after she was told how it worked was just pointless.
and you know what, I was totally wrong for "exposing" her, because I didn't even think about the SI thread which yeah, I'm sorry. For real, because that was so stupid of me not to consider that.
and no, it's not stupid if someone doesn't understand how this site works because I remember being that girl too, but she's been actively posting here long enough to know a thing or two.
.. she made them before she was banned because she misunderstood the anon mama thing, and that one was banned so she made another anon mama. seriously wtfs the point in all this? I think the people involved in this should step down, cause you're clearly not being able to handle being calm n cool instead of letting your defensiveness do yr actions for you. You've compromised a young mother's safe space by exposing her as a self injurer because she omg, did the anon mama thing incorrectly, you've treated her like garbage, snarked a private thread she made in a public space, and banned her for really no good reason, other people have made way worse mistakes then this and are still around, because banning people on a power trip is not what GM is about.
and how many people who've been here for 4+ years, even longer then you, still mess up from time to time? Quite a bit actually, cause yeah everyone's uhm, human and stuff.
I never got told how to do the anonymose thing works. I did pm mod squad and the c...... mod but i never got a reply or i might of but i was banned before i could view the messages...
now fucking everyone knows about my thing .. i just wanted to see if i was the only one .. but NO . know everyone one knows even guests .
now i am banned from all of it .. and the post are there where eveyone can see forever even though i wont be able to get help for it .
sorry for trying to be discrete .
you know KINDA ashamed of it .. but no big deal right
well since every one fuckin knows about it .. might as well know . I am Doing right now.. . cutting my thigh . with a razor that is super hot from the lighter .. adding salt....
fun fun.. try it some time ..
be careful not to post it on here.. the mods will just make fun of you for your triggers and then ban u when u say something about it
AM - we've had our clashes before but I gotta say again I'm sorry you're going through all this so publically now, and you have my email in case you need support.
well it wouldn't be public but i wasnt "fit enough" to get in the backroom..
thats why i didnt the anonymous mama thing cuz I waited to get in there but was denied but i am tired of holding the si ing in .
so once again sorry for doing that wrong .
still dont know how it works ... got to go clean up blood now.. tho it kinda hard to walk . lol..
so i feel much better have fun...
sorry for compromising your guy's safe place.. didn't realize it wasn't one for me
DONT FORGET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Britt wrote:
Just because this is a safe space doesn't mean it's a safe space for everyone who chooses to come. .
im really dissapointed mods.... as a self injurer myself and having to deal with hiding my cuts and scars from the people i love in fear for the saftey of keeping my child. I am sad. sad that we couldnt keep this private that we had to call out her very private personal buissness infront of the whole god damn world that has acsess to the interenet... I know we have had disagreements with her but damn....were suppose to be a community and now we are tearing each other apart.....
Society tears us apart for all the shit in our lives we do "WRONG" and now girl mom does to. last chance if ur buissness is out there so is mine i si too....i know its no consellation for what happened to you but know that you arent alone.....
I am in serious shock and feel very dissapointed that this had to be handled this way.....
Yeah I used to SI as well, so now I understand why she was being anxious about getting into the BR to be able to talk about it.
Haven't done it in years, but I still have to explain the scars going up and down my arms and legs, and I still get the urge when things start going wrong.
AM - you're not alone in it, so please don't feel that you are.
And my anger is not pointed at all the mods, some of you are very good at it and haven't been involved in this, but mainly the ones that are, britt especially, I do not feel comfortable with you being a mod at all any more. Or in the locked rooms even, if you can feel okay with snarking a private post outside of the locked rooms.
Look. I'm the one who pm'ed her from the mod_squad. I assumed that she knew about the anonymousmama screenname because she has been here as a member for over 6 months. I am sorry. As for everyone else attacking the mods and everything -- you guys do not know everything that is going on between us and AM. There are reasons behind the things we do. We felt that now was not the time for AM to have backroom access. I don't know if this is a big misunderstanding or what, but we took her actions to be trollish and not okay. I, or any of the mods that I am aware of, knew that she needed access to the backroom to talk about SI. That may have changed our answers, or maybe not. But it is not fair of anyone to assume that everything you know is everything that is going on. Also, about us bringing it out into the public, as far as I am aware she outed herself in this thread. I made it a point (as I am sure the rest of us did) to not out her in public because I can imagine she did not want that to happen.
You guys need to realize that we are people. We have lives outside of girlmom, we make mistakes, just like everyone else.
so uhh... do you have a kid? Are you pregnant?
tell us about yourself
This is ridiculous. We know who you are and your bullshit is not welcome here. We don't have time to run around trying to keep track of your little games. You will be banned from all of your usernames until you can grow up and stop messing with our safe space. There are plenty of other mama websites out there for you. Go find one.
the mods can track you by IP by the way...
okay.. sorry i was trying to get help for my situation. but didnt want to be known who i am . SHIT ... I was told by MOD SQUAD to go under an anonymous mama and that is what i did "If you have sensitive information that you need to post, you may do so under the anonymous mama screen name on the public boards. "
I did what she said!!!! why am i getting shit for something that the MOD SQUAD said to do !???!?!?!?
Eww, I can't even believe you're trying to make such a bullshit arguement. FYI you don't just go make a screen name that says "anonymous" in it. It's a special screen name we give people access to when they need to use it. (just in case anyone else was confused about that).
how am i suppose to know that?
all she said was to post it with that screen name ..
I dont think that me < alexzander'smom should be banned..
I had no clue that it was a special name ..
I just wanted help with the siing cuz i need to know how to self fix a wound to the bone .. and wanted to see if i was alone in this or not..
I thought this was a safe place where i could talk about it . but i cant since all of mine has been banned.. like this will be ..
but i dont think i should be banned. I wasnt even given . I just didnt want others to know it was me right away, i didnt want to be outcasted.. I had no clue about the anonymous mama thing . so i thought i did what i was suppse to . cuz no one ever mentioned a password or how to log into it . so if someone could please unban AlexZander'smom i would apprecaite it . I cant even post a reply to inbox messages i didnt get to read from varies mods. and i cant comment on what your posting to me like this post.. etc
thanks and sorry ..
i thought that is what mod squad meant .. didnt mean to offend anyone.. just want help from others like me
holy fuck you guys, yeah AM questioned your modding but what the hell are you doing to her? You out her because she did it WRONG after she posted highly sensitive information?! I didn't need to know it was AM, because self injury is a really fucking deep topic, not one that people want exposed for them, that shit isn't yours to expose, who the hell cares if she did it WRONG.
I'm seriously doubting your ability to mod now too, that shit is just wrong whether you like the girl or not and I think she needs a mass apology from the mods here, because i've watched this blow up out of defensiveness and whether or not she said something you like or not does not mean you get to do this to her.
What the hell...?
No, you will not be unbanned.
Just because this is a safe space doesn't mean it's a safe space for everyone who chooses to come. Once you start compromising the safe space for everyone else then you have no reason to be here and we have no obligation to try and make you feel welcome.
and I know you're not THAT clueless.
We're all done having this arguement. You need to leave.
And considering the majority of yall are nowhere NEAR 17 like she is, consider that you're alienating someone this site is MEANT FOR and whether or not you're following the older mama guidelines either.
Ok how did she compromise the safe space?
Im really confused!!!!
Once you start compromising the safe space for everyone else???
how?
I have to agree with Naivete.
because she, oh no, deleted a picture like we've all had the option to forever, after a mod so nicely and snarkily MADE FUN OF HER for it. If anything I'd say the mod compromised safeness because they made fun of her for a thread in a locked space, out in a public space.
hi lastchance.
i saw one of your posts about SI. i am just wanted to let you know that you can pm me if you want to talk. i would have pm'ed you this, but i wasnt quite sure which name to do it under, so i'll leave it up to you. hope things get better for you. and good luck with everything.
And Britt how about you stop being a snark to her? You've been nothing but rude and it's pissing me off. She's not THAT clueless? So she made a mistake, oh that makes her a dumbass, lets all sit and laugh at her after we ban her for no reason. right.
Most of hte girls on this site are newer and don't know the rules or the methods around things, are they all just stupid too?
She started trolling the fucking boards with 2 other usernames before her first one was even banned! And this was AFTER another mod explained to her about the anonymousmama thing and the fact that she could PM us if she needed to use it. So yeah, maybe her first anonmama username was legit and that was totally fine, but the fact that she made another one even after she was told how it worked was just pointless.
and you know what, I was totally wrong for "exposing" her, because I didn't even think about the SI thread which yeah, I'm sorry. For real, because that was so stupid of me not to consider that.
and no, it's not stupid if someone doesn't understand how this site works because I remember being that girl too, but she's been actively posting here long enough to know a thing or two.
.. she made them before she was banned because she misunderstood the anon mama thing, and that one was banned so she made another anon mama. seriously wtfs the point in all this? I think the people involved in this should step down, cause you're clearly not being able to handle being calm n cool instead of letting your defensiveness do yr actions for you. You've compromised a young mother's safe space by exposing her as a self injurer because she omg, did the anon mama thing incorrectly, you've treated her like garbage, snarked a private thread she made in a public space, and banned her for really no good reason, other people have made way worse mistakes then this and are still around, because banning people on a power trip is not what GM is about.
another thing.
MAYBE you should of as a GROUP as mods handled this privatley. Make sense?
and how many people who've been here for 4+ years, even longer then you, still mess up from time to time? Quite a bit actually, cause yeah everyone's uhm, human and stuff.
You've been here long enough to know that.
lmfao kell. yeah and the one thing they DO in public is this, it's kind of ironic ;)
I never got told how to do the anonymose thing works. I did pm mod squad and the c...... mod but i never got a reply or i might of but i was banned before i could view the messages...
now fucking everyone knows about my thing .. i just wanted to see if i was the only one .. but NO . know everyone one knows even guests .
now i am banned from all of it .. and the post are there where eveyone can see forever even though i wont be able to get help for it .
sorry for trying to be discrete .
you know KINDA ashamed of it .. but no big deal right
well since every one fuckin knows about it .. might as well know . I am Doing right now.. . cutting my thigh . with a razor that is super hot from the lighter .. adding salt....
fun fun.. try it some time ..
be careful not to post it on here.. the mods will just make fun of you for your triggers and then ban u when u say something about it
AM - we've had our clashes before but I gotta say again I'm sorry you're going through all this so publically now, and you have my email in case you need support.
Im really fuken shocked by the actions taken from some mods right now.
Really flippin shocked. And pretty pissed.
Safe space? Huh? Whats that?
well it wouldn't be public but i wasnt "fit enough" to get in the backroom..
thats why i didnt the anonymous mama thing cuz I waited to get in there but was denied but i am tired of holding the si ing in .
so once again sorry for doing that wrong .
still dont know how it works ... got to go clean up blood now.. tho it kinda hard to walk . lol..
so i feel much better have fun...
sorry for compromising your guy's safe place.. didn't realize it wasn't one for me
DONT FORGET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and thats the site admin!!!!!!
im really dissapointed mods.... as a self injurer myself and having to deal with hiding my cuts and scars from the people i love in fear for the saftey of keeping my child. I am sad. sad that we couldnt keep this private that we had to call out her very private personal buissness infront of the whole god damn world that has acsess to the interenet... I know we have had disagreements with her but damn....were suppose to be a community and now we are tearing each other apart.....
Society tears us apart for all the shit in our lives we do "WRONG" and now girl mom does to. last chance if ur buissness is out there so is mine i si too....i know its no consellation for what happened to you but know that you arent alone.....
I am in serious shock and feel very dissapointed that this had to be handled this way.....
Yeah I used to SI as well, so now I understand why she was being anxious about getting into the BR to be able to talk about it.
Haven't done it in years, but I still have to explain the scars going up and down my arms and legs, and I still get the urge when things start going wrong.
AM - you're not alone in it, so please don't feel that you are.
And my anger is not pointed at all the mods, some of you are very good at it and haven't been involved in this, but mainly the ones that are, britt especially, I do not feel comfortable with you being a mod at all any more. Or in the locked rooms even, if you can feel okay with snarking a private post outside of the locked rooms.
Look. I'm the one who pm'ed her from the mod_squad. I assumed that she knew about the anonymousmama screenname because she has been here as a member for over 6 months. I am sorry. As for everyone else attacking the mods and everything -- you guys do not know everything that is going on between us and AM. There are reasons behind the things we do. We felt that now was not the time for AM to have backroom access. I don't know if this is a big misunderstanding or what, but we took her actions to be trollish and not okay. I, or any of the mods that I am aware of, knew that she needed access to the backroom to talk about SI. That may have changed our answers, or maybe not. But it is not fair of anyone to assume that everything you know is everything that is going on. Also, about us bringing it out into the public, as far as I am aware she outed herself in this thread. I made it a point (as I am sure the rest of us did) to not out her in public because I can imagine she did not want that to happen.
You guys need to realize that we are people. We have lives outside of girlmom, we make mistakes, just like everyone else.
Of course everyone makes mistakes.
Thats not the main point.
Why was she banned?
What was the main reason?
Id like to know. . .
Also (not you sky) snottyness from a mod when being explained something i think is a little unecessary. looks bad.
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