ok...I turned 17 in june 27...I havent had the chance to take a hpt. My friend was gonna get it for me but she coldnt. My dad is on vacation so hes always here and my mom works till 5pm some days and another till 9pm. I was raised in a christian family, but me and my parents we always have problems...it wasnt always like this...They used to let me go to partys and stay in my friends house...I lost my virginity at 14, but it was a horrible experience...After i graduate from Middle school(in puerto rico is till 9grade) they decided to put me on a privete school....thats when things got worst...My uncle is a priest on a Southern baptist church and my dad is almost a pastor there...They dont want me to have boyfriends...so if they found out in talking with someone they just grounded me. I started to go to church and i was calm...doing what they asked me for and trying to be a good daugher and example...I fell for this guy who i known like forever and they all know hes family...they found out and took away my celphone and they didnt want me to talk whit some of my friends, they erased there phone # from my celphone and everything...So i just go tired of it....I was alone for a few months until i reunited whit a guy that i always liked but never got to be whit him...he started callling me and we worked in the same place...One thing let to another and...well u know...The problem is that he has a girfriend( so ashamed of it, im not a slut...) i told him a might be pregnant and he said that if i am well hes the babys father so he would take responsability. Out of nowhere my mom took away mas celphone so i cant talk to any of my friend or the boy....
now is almost a month since i had sex...when my period was due i got it a day before i was supposed to(15 days after sex)...It was very light and it lasted only three days, i had almost no cramps...my ussual period last 5 days and its whit a lot of pain...Ive been getting headaches, nauseas( but only some days and is on and off) Im waking up at the middle of the night whit nauseas and needing to pee.Dizziness, bloating and my nipples are sore and sensible...the area around them itches. Today i notice my boobs kinda of sore and heavier. Weird cramps and its like down there is moving...i feel movement....weird :? If i tell my mom she is gonna kill me, she said she would kill me before letting me move out of my house before i turned 18, and that she would kill me before i did something that she woul be ashamed of it...So she is gonna kill me....I dont know if im pregnant and i dont know what to do...Schools starts in August 6 and by then i have to know, cause is gonna be worst if they kikck me out of a Baptist Academy.... Any advice....am i pregnant? what shoul i do?/
i will come back to this after school today and i'm sure a few people will have a chance to respond before then.
that light spotting sounds like implantation bleeding. you sometimes spot a bit around the usuial time of your period when the embryo implants itself. is there any way you can get a test? at this point it sounds likely but you never know. you need to find a way to get a test pronto! much easier said than done, i know.
if you find out for sure as soon as possible you keep all your options open. and unless you mean that someone has made literal death threats against you you will likely not be killed. there is lots of support here.
i used to go to a SBC church too by the way. i understand some of the fears you may have b/c social pressure.
Here at Girlmom we don't allow antiwoman words like 'slut' no matter what the context. Please respect that in the future. We also aren't here to judge you whether you're sleeping with a man who has a girlfriend, has a wife, sleeping with his brother, or his hamster, we aren't going to judge you or what you do with your life.
Your best bet right now is to get yourself a pregnancy test. You're under a lot of stress, and stress itself can cause a late period and your late period causes more stress which causes a LATER period...it's a vicious cycle. If it's only been a month since you've had sex, a lot of the symptoms you're describing are probably psychosomatic. It's too soon for any real symptoms to be taking effect. Relax, take some deep breaths. Get a pregnancy test. I don't know how things are in puerto rico, but you might see about finding a free clinic. Lots of places offer free pregnancy tests.