Ok so i had my 1st papsmear a month or so ago and my doctor called me and told me i have gonnorhea. Im so confused though because my boyfriend got tested before we had sex-he was clean, and i was a virgin. So I really don't know how I couldve got it? Ugh its so aggrivating not knowing....any help would make me feel a lot better about this. thanks alot :?:
could he have been lying? also maybe it hadn't shown yet??
It's also possible that he was clean before you first began having sex, but contracted it from someone else during the time you were together. I would ask him to get tested again, and go with him so you can get the results first hand.
nope, he was clean before we had sex.
& he has only been with me so i guess the only way he couldve got it was from me. ive never had sex with anyone besides him but i have kissed a guy once since we have been together, but he is a virgin
girl, the only way you get gonorrhea is from sexual contact with an infected area. Kissing doesn't count. Either he had it before you two got together and lied about the results, lied about getting tested, or he got it and gave it to you while you were together. Do Not let him blame it on you if you KNOW you didn't have sex with anyone else. Thats the first thing a cheater does, is try and turn it around and blame the innocent person.
Don't delude yourself. You're smarter and better than that. Something is wrong here, and he's not being completely honest. You deserve honesty out of your partner. Don't you want to know? Next time you could end up with something worse, something that isn't curable.
If hes the only person you have had sex with then you contracted it from him.
ITA, you need to listen to these girls. The only way a person can get gonorrhea is from sexual contact. I know that it is very, very hard to acknowledge that the person you love is lying to you. I know that it's hard to think that he might not have been a virgin, or he might have cheated, but one of those things happened. Either he lied about being a virgin, or he's cheated. It can't be anything else. You know how many people you've been with, and as much as you may want to convince yourself there's no way he's been with someone else, if you haven't then he has and that std is proof of it.