So about a week and a half ago Eric started wearing underwear. He has been doing, in my opinion, very well. Obviously he has had accidents, and he has pooped in his underwear a few times, but usually he stays dry all day. I don't know, is that good? My parents don't seem to think so. My mom is constantly on me about how he is not doing well enough and its somehow my fault, because I am lazy. And then every time Eric does have an accident my dad tells me he isn't ready and that I should put a pull up on him. And when he has watched him, he'll change Eric into a pull up right away. He came out and told me that he did it because he doesn't think Eric is ready and he didn't want to deal with an accident. I asked him not to do it, but he did it again. I don't know how to get it across to him that he is going to have accidents and putting him in a pull up isn't going to get him any closer to being potty trained. It just sucks because either thing I do someone is pissed at me, if I put him in pull ups my mom thinks I'm being lazy but if I don't my dad thinks that Eric isn't ready and feels that it is his place to step in and put a pull up on.
Another thing that is kind of a problem, or maybe not, I really don't know but Eric usually doesn't ask to go potty. He goes when I put him on the toilet but he hasn't asked to go, except for a few times. He's going to be three really soon, so isn't that when they are supposed to be able to know when they have to go? Or should I just give it more time and he will start to know what it feels like.