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my sons father left when i told him i was pregnant and now he is avoiding me and im with my son the whole day unless im at work i dont ever get a break and the times i do i have to b back in like 5 mins i feel like im going to break down my patience is starting to wear thin bc he is bad he loves to not listen to a word i say. im just realy frustrated right now. what should i do bc he feels the tension and ne more if i walk out the door he screams

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Is there a friend or family member that could take your little guy for a day or two, just so you can get some time alone to relax and de-stress?

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my mom says ur off i dont have to watch him and all my other family says theyll take him but bring him back i dunno im to the point im going to start paying somebody to take him for like 3 hours

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Where do you live? Maybe there is a girlmom close to you that can help you out.

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i live in las vegas

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Ok mama, there are a couple of NV girlmoms and a few that live in So Cal. Can any of you help her out? She needs a break.

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I just wanted to bump this up to see if their are any mamas that could help her out! I would if i was in the area but unfortunately Im not.

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I hope you can take some time for yourself, if I was nearby I'd defiinately try to help you out...if you need to vent or anything, we are all here....I hope there is someone near you who can lend a hand. :)

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thank you all for being so nice to me

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babigurl wrote:
my sons father left when i told him i was pregnant and now he is avoiding me and im with my son the whole day unless im at work i dont ever get a break and the times i do i have to b back in like 5 mins i feel like im going to break down my patience is starting to wear thin bc he is bad he loves to not listen to a word i say. im just realy frustrated right now. what should i do bc he feels the tension and ne more if i walk out the door he screams

Have you thought about getting a friend to watch him for a couple of hours for you? Sometimes I do that so I can get some "alone" time. I need it to recharge because I'm always running after a 2-year-old and taking care of a 5-month-old.

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yea i have a friend but lately he doesnt like her too much all he does is scream with her i think he can sense her pregnancy or something. the one friend i know that would do it i dont know how to get in touch with her ne more

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Hey Kim, if you need someone to watch Blake sometime, I can watch him for a couple of hours so you can have some alone time... We can meet up and do lunch or something first, since we haven't really met in person or anything yet... But, I'm sure my little munchkin Ethan would love hanging out with another little kid for a couple of hours... Talk to you later... Take care... And remember, you can call me anytime...

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awww ty lore umm maybe we can do it next tues bc tomorrow we are getting our pics done finally. ill have pics with me and blake in them its gonna b soo cute!!