matt had a therapy appointment today. I wasn't there because I work every saturday.
the therapist (who I have met once and matt has only met with 5 times including today) decided to see him alone, without any parent there.
I met her last week, and she did not mention her desire to do things this way. we were with his last therapist over a year (she left practice recently to go into teaching) and not once did she see him without a parent.
I am beyond pissed. I wasn't consented, and SO called me after the fact (while he was leaving to grab some pizza)
I want to be consented BEFORE changes are made to his care. I think I deserve that. I don't care if this is how she 'always' does it, I want my opinion heard and I want the opportunity to ask questions like what she hopes to accomplish.
SO thinks i'm disrespecting him and not trusting him. he says he didn't have time to tell her he had to 'call the real parent.'
i'm thinking why not just say 'maybe next time, we should both weigh in on this.' i'd sure as hell consent him before changing things without even seeing how he felt.