Well thursday I am going to have the mirena inserted. I'm pretty excited and also nervous. I'm getting it because I have a really hard time remembering to take the pill and I definitely do not want to get pregnant right now! I'm mostly nervous because of all the side effects that I have heard and plus I hear it hurts to get put in. I have been reading stuff online, both good and bad but I was wondering if anyone had personal experience. Also, does anyone know if you or your partner can feel it when you are having vaginal sex? When I was on the nuvaring awhile back my bf who I'm still with now would always complain he could feel it.