so I know a lot of you mamas here have been thru this and I need help like you wouldn't believe...
heres the info as of now. We are Seperating but not signing a seperation agreement as of yet. I have Xander Monday thru Friday and he has him Saturday and Sunday. We are on okay terms as of right now but had a HUGE blow out the other night about CS. I told him I wanted to file paper work on everything just so it was documented and to protect me from him and vice versa. He was okay until I started talking about CS. He thinks less than $200 a month is okay. Um not okay with me.
Fast Foward. I have downloaded all my paperwork. I am so freaking confused. Petitioner and Respondent, commissioner, acknowledgments of paternity - seriously my head is spinning. My questions are (hopefully that he won't try to fight me on all this and it will go thru!):
how do they determine child support? everything gives me percentages but does it go by what it costs to feed, diaper, cloth, house your child and the time you spend with them???
who the hell is the commissioner?? should i file my CS paperwork as individual or commissioner???
do i need a certified copy of the acknowledgment of paternity or can i send in the copy they sent me with the BC?
who did you get to serve BD? It says i have to get someone over 18 thats not related to either of us to serve him.
thanks mamas. My head is spinning and i seriously want to pull my hair out. Oh yea let me know how you survived it and what helped you thru. thanks so much....