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Well I think she is getting out for real this time

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deb_m
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Well I think she is getting out for real this time

Krystyna stayed here last night. We talked alot, about a lot of stuff, and I think she is finally done with Aaron and done putting up with his abuse. Latley she gets dizzy alot and her vision gets all blurry.Her head is always hurting like behind her ear and we were talking about it and suddenly she started crying and I asked why and she realized why, about a month ago they were fighting and Aaron kept hitting her in the head and banging her head into the wall.So she has a Dr. appointment on the 9th to have that checked out.
She went to her parents house tonight and she told them EVERYTHING, and she is going to move in there and her Dad is going with her tomorrow to get all of her stuff and the girlies stuff out of their house.Then she is going to get a job and look for her own place. I pray to God she goes through with this but I think she is for real, she went to her parents for help and that is a very hard thing for her because of how they are.She has never went to them with this before so fingers crossed this is it!!!

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Well I think she is getting out for real this time

Good for her, and good for you for helping her through this time. I'm glad she's asking for help and that she's refusing to put up with it any more. I hope it all goes through well. Are the police being notified? Is there going to be a restraining order of some sort? I'm still worried about her, if she doesn't have protection, what he could do to her for leaving him. I wish her the best and her and her family'll be in my prayers and thoughts.

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Well I think she is getting out for real this time

That is very good news that she's getting out of a bad situation, particularly if it's affecting her head. She should be sure to tell the doctor about the incident that occured a month ago so it's documented and she can present it in court if her husband tries to get custody or cause trouble. I also recommend that she get a restraining order, but first things first, right?

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Well I think she is getting out for real this time

Good for her I'm glad she's taken the step to get the help she needs good luck to her and her girlies

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Well I think she is getting out for real this time

I agree. I think its great that she is taking all the steps she should to get out and on her own and away from him but - she should go and file for custody ASAP and go to the police and have them issue an order of protection. It will keep him away from her and her girls. Plus it may come in handy when she goes to file for custody. I know it seems like a lot but she needs to do this ASAP... give her ::hugs:: for me. I know how hard it can be to leave but she needs to do it...