Falling in love is great,but what the f*** do you do when you want to fall OUT of love???How the hell do you do that?I am trying to get over bd,drama drama drama,and i have yet to find a successful way to NOT love him.
any suggestions?How did you fall out of love?????????what do you do to rip them out of your heart?
Falling out of Love?
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Mon, 2004-08-09 10:47
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Falling out of Love?
Falling out of love is not EASY! It's like tough love. You just have to let go. I had to do it for one of my exes and it was hard but I am better off.... Good Luck...
hmm just think about their gross habits more than their goodness.
Exactly what Dana said. Every time you catch him picking his nose, make a big deal outta it in your head. Eventually you'll start automatically noticing the gross habits, or problems with his attitude, or his laziness, or etc etc etc, and focusing more on that naturally, and you'll start to realize the good things just don't add up ;)
make a list of all the things about him you dont like. list everything in detail. take yourself back to all the times you knew he wasnt right for you, all the times he hurt you. then read that whenever in doubt.
getting over someone is hard, but in time you'll be over him.
move on.
Don't call him or email him or chat with him.
If he calls you, limit your discussion to business- like the kids.
Don't ask mutual friends questions about what he is doing or who he is dating.
Decide what "love" really means to you and whether you actually loved himand if so why. Then, decide what you will look for in the future.
Feel comfortable around other people with whom you may want a romantic relationship.