How do you get people to stay out of your business? :x Or if they have a problem with you come to you, instead of going behind your back? My mother, uncle, cousin and I all live share a house together. We've divided the house. My cousin and uncle stay up stairs, and my mom and me stay downstairs. My problem is that today BD came over and we were in my room like usual, watching tv and playing around. Anyway later on my uncle comes in and tells my mom that he thinks me and BD were having sex. His reason is because he could smell it. Now not that I have to justify myself to him or anything, but me and BD haven't had sex since september. I am an adult. Why does he feel the need to run and tell my mother his suspicions instead of talking to me? He doesn't even speak to me but he could "smell" that we'd had sex. It pisses me off so much that he does things like this. My mother says I should leave it alone, but I feel like confronting him.