How do you get people to stay out of your business? :x Or if they have a problem with you come to you, instead of going behind your back? My mother, uncle, cousin and I all live share a house together. We've divided the house. My cousin and uncle stay up stairs, and my mom and me stay downstairs. My problem is that today BD came over and we were in my room like usual, watching tv and playing around. Anyway later on my uncle comes in and tells my mom that he thinks me and BD were having sex. His reason is because he could smell it. Now not that I have to justify myself to him or anything, but me and BD haven't had sex since september. I am an adult. Why does he feel the need to run and tell my mother his suspicions instead of talking to me? He doesn't even speak to me but he could "smell" that we'd had sex. It pisses me off so much that he does things like this. My mother says I should leave it alone, but I feel like confronting him.
I'd confront and ask him why he thinks that something happens in your part of the house concerns him, you're a responsible adult and if he has a problem or concern he needs to address it with you first, and not your mother. Tell him that as an adult you have the right to have consentual sex (even though you werent) and it'd be none of his business if you were. Ask him nicely to please stay out of your personal business and if he has concerns to please talk to you about them before making any comments to your mother.
Katie said it very well!!
Im sorry you are not being respected hunny!
eww...that's kind of creepy. He can smell it?!
I would confront him and tell him that it is none of his buisness if you have sex with someone or not.