Whats the difference between molestation and sexual abuse? Does anyone know the "definition" for those terms?
Im asking, because a couple years ago, something happened and in order for me to really understand and come to term with what happened, I need to know what really happened.
I was at a Starbucks in a sort of "bad area" with some friends one Halloween. I was wearing a sailor outfit, so my pants were pretty loose. We were sitting there hanging out, and a group of guys came in. Im guessing they were on some type of drug, which I think it was Extasy (because of some signs they were exhibiting, although Im not 100% sure.) They kind of surrounded us. We were in the back of the Starbucks, and it was late at night, so no one could really see what was happening back where we were. One guy sat next to me and was saying gross things to me, so I ignored him. I was really scared. Then he stuck his hand in my pants and started to try to put his mouth on my boob (over my shirt). I avoided his hand and tried to get it out of my pants, but I was scared. Finally, they left and we ran out of there and ran to where we were parked.
What would you call what happened? I really just need to figure it out, so I can move on. It happened awhile ago but I cant even go into that Starbucks now, because I get flashbacks to what happens and I start to get really panicky.