Ok, my sister is 20 and her boyfriend is 26 and has a 4 year old daughter. I don't care about age, him having kids.... you know, etc... but I want to mention that for the sake of the story. Anyway, she just started college this past fall and he just finished. He got divorced a few years ago and they share custody of their daughter. Anyway, around Thanksgiving Crystal (my sister) and Aaron (her bf) got engaged. She just told me this past weekend. I don't know why she waited, I think she thought that I would judge. Me of all people!!! I dunno really. They have been dating 10 months and they're waiting until she is done with college to get married. She doesn't know how to tell our parents... weird story. They're hard to tell things like this, they're judgemental, like tell Crystal she's too young, etc... any suggestions on how she should tell them? We were extremely surprised they didn't freak out because Aaron has a 4 year old and was married before. Any reason anyone know why she waited to tell me? She was there when I found out I was pregnant!